Manipulated by my wife. $$$$$$

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    #1 Tina's Bitch, Jul 17, 2020
    I’ve been in permanent chastity for 5 years. My Wife just gave me an ultimatum and said that she wants $100 per week as a fee for keeping me locked. I told her that I didn’t want to be locked and she shunned me. Now I am required to pay her $100 per week for the “hassle” of being a key holder. She said that if I ever want to consider being releases I must continue the payments. I just paid her gave her $100 and she told me I must continue weekly payments for her to ever even consider releasing me. And to rub it in my face she reminded me that she loves the strap on I use and could do without my little dick.
     
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    #2 Unlucky, Jul 17, 2020
    If you've verbally withdrawn your consent, what she's doing is abuse.
     
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    #3 piet00, Jul 17, 2020
    What would happen after the Ultimatum?
    Also I couldn't figure out exactly what your porting is about as it doesn't include a question not is it meant as a Journal, right?
    Piet
     
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    #4 LockedPom, Jul 17, 2020
    Sounds like an abusive relationship.
     
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    #5 LesterBallard, Jul 17, 2020
    If this isn't bullshit, and it smells like it to me, then you need to walk away.
     
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    #6 MRS.Lilith, Jul 17, 2020
    Any nonconsensual act makes it abuse, not kink. If this is a real problem you face, you need to have a serious discussion with her/and or leave the relationship.
     
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    #7 Juan., Jul 17, 2020
    You do whatever you want but this it is not going to end well for you

    Only you can tell if she really loves you or not so it is some kind of play or real blackmail, be honest with yourself

    And of course the issue it is not the money itself, it what means
     
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    #8 subrick, Jul 17, 2020
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    I, too, believe that if this is in fact the truth, then this is abuse.

    If this is just you blowing off steam because you don't want to pay the $100/week, then perhaps some more facts might be helpful for us in terms of your overall relationship with her.

    If it's just BS, then all I'll say is $100/week for a hobby is cheaper than having a boat! LOL

    Good Luck,

    ~subrick
     
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    #9 Tina's Bitch, Jul 17, 2020
    probably. Please call the chastity police.
     
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    #10 BR_Saiph, Jul 17, 2020
    Summary:
    You said she shunned you when you wanted to end chastity, and thus implied to us that if you wish to continue in your wife's good graces you must remain locked and pay a weekly fee.
    She doesn't care if you're ever unlocked because the strap-on is all she needs.
    Am I understanding correctly?
     
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    #11 Abstraction, Jul 17, 2020
    Guess it's not that much of a problem if in response to a genuine concern the 'victim' replies with a flippant remark. :+1:
     
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    #12 Tina's Bitch, Jul 17, 2020
    Nope. It’s true. I got a raise at work and she wanted some extra spending money. I think this was her way of making sure I shared some with her.
     
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    #13 Tina's Bitch, Jul 17, 2020
    Ya, it’s cheaper then a new car payment for her which is what she has been talking about.
     
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    #14 Tina's Bitch, Jul 17, 2020
    Victim?
     
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    #15 Abstraction, Jul 17, 2020
    In an abusive relationship the abuser abuses and the victim suffers. I presume that since you are the one being abused you would fall in the victim category.
     
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    #16 Unlucky, Jul 17, 2020
    If you're just venting, that's fine, but it's nice to include that in a post.
     
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    #17 BR_Saiph, Jul 17, 2020
    Yep.
     
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    #18 madams-sissysub, Jul 17, 2020
    I agree,
     
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    #19 King Hippo, Jul 17, 2020
    This sounds like a load of crap to me but for the sake of discuess....

    Unless you enjoy giving her 400 to 500 dollars a month, you shouldn't be doing it. There are some things that go hand in hand with a chastity relationship that might seem terrible to most... in to the couple involved they should both somewhat enjoy the experience.

    I am not sure what your financial situation is like... but this seems a bit ridiculous.
     
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    #20 piet00, Jul 17, 2020
    I agree ;-)
    But honestly I must admit, that I asked my KH if I she agrees to get _all_ my salary - transferred directly to her bank account.
    Luckily she said yes.
    We have written it into her contract and the "mindfuck" effect is so great. I get a fixed amount each week and she can do whatever she wants with the rest.
    Writing this feels kind of awkward but for me it's a sign of dedication.
    Love it
     
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    #21 tecolote, Jul 17, 2020
    Honestly, this just seems like play to me. I'm not sure what everyone is freaking out about. They are married, so there is already a community property aspect to the relationship. He's just 'giving' her something that is already hers, or half hers.

    I'd gladly 'give' my wife $100 a week in exchange for her being an active keyholder.
     
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    #22 JamesAll10, Jul 17, 2020
    Does she live in Nigeria? Is she a princess? If my wife wants $100 or $500 a week she just takes it. Money doesn’t matter in our sexual relationship.
     
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    #23 L-u-c-y, Jul 17, 2020
    Of course it's not abuse, this is his fantasy come true.
     
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    #24 Abstraction, Jul 18, 2020
    @L-u-c-y, that seems to be the case. Venting for the sake of getting attention and showing off the fact of a raise at work. Oh so submissive... :+1:
     
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    #25 Rodeo cowboy, Jul 18, 2020
    Lucy if he “donates” $100 per week to CM can we all ignore or mistreat him like his wife?
     
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