Lurker coming out of the closet.

Hello I'm Jones

I'm male, 47, have two amazing teenage children and I've been married for the better part of twenty years to my wonderful wife in what you could call a vanilla relationship although after twenty years and with two teenagers, you tend to let the much needed ''Us Time'' slip a little, so you can just imagine my surprise when she suggested spicing up our sex life up a little.

Great!! .. I thought, a cute little french maids outfit, some role playing maybe some stockings suspenders and corset, yes my Wife has a fondness for corsets and being an ample Woman, a corset perfectly embellishes her god given assets, boy was I wrong with the stockings, suspenders and corset angle, No, she had something else on her mind totally and with that she suggested chastity, I'm not quite sure who she has been chatting with or what she has been reading, I really should find out, although I am still living in hope for the stockings suspenders and corset.

Now, I had heard of chastity belts for Woman, but chastity for a man was a new one on me, so off course I began doing some research which led me to the doors of this wonderful mansion, I have to admit to being intrigued by the idea of male chastity and further investigation revealed a wealth of information hidden behind your walls.

Obviously the concept and idea of male chastity was new to us so choosing the right chastity device was going to play a major a part in our first tentative steps in this journey, to be honest I had no idea how many different types and styles where even available, it was kind of mind blowing at first, cages, full belts, metal, plastic, leather even rubber the choice seemed endless and I wont't lie, my mind was swimming by the end of our product search.

Anyway, we have decided on what seems to be a popular choice and favourite with some great reviews, so we ordered a CB6000s, its light, tight, concealable, easily available in the UK and won't break the bank, it seems like the perfect beginners choice and with any luck it should arrive in time for my next few days off work.

I plan on test driving it for a few days to make sure it is comfortable and everything is set up just right before officially handing over the keys and starting on this interesting journey, I am also hoping to sweet talk Mrs.Jones into considering joining this site, I think I read somewhere that you were thinking about setting up a specific area for keyholders, Wives and Girlfriends and calling it the Rose Garden which is a great name by the way and a great idea, I know my Wife would feel comfortable with something like that so she could chat and gain more confidence in her role, because she is going to be as new to this as I am.

Well, thats my intro I hope it's okay and be warned, I will almost certainly be asking some of more experienced devotees to a chaste life and lifestyle questions and picking your brains as we explore this new chapter in our life.

 

Thank you everyone for the advice, tips and the warm welcome, it only goes to prove what I already suspected, I am glad I found this site and became a member.

@thegreenrabbit - I feel you may be right, once penetration and release is taken out of the equation or at least controlled, new ways of satisfaction will need come into play for my Wife/Keyholder and I suspect it will take our relationship to a new level of intimacy and understanding on my part.

Once the act of personal satisfaction and release, an act I have taken for granted for the better part of my adult life is no longer available to me without permission my self pleasing emotions may take a different turn, instead focusing on putting her pleasure, needs and satisfaction above my own will become my main objective as we venture further down this new road of learning and understanding together.

I'm guessing Tease & Denial will play a big part in my reeducation as I endeavour to please pamper and spoil her, much to my shame I have never really taken the time to understand her needs, selfish on my part I suppose but I think that is going to change drastically as I alter my way of thinking.