Looking for that sweet spot for lockup times...

I go any smaller I feel to squished. The nano, nub, mini etc will never be my thing.

 

I could wear a smaller cage but it's uncomfortable for long run and have no interest in shrinking into one so it fits. That's why there's a million different size cages though. We're all different

 

My ideal time is every 10 days, but I am usually lock for either 7 or 14 days. We historically observe Lent and Locktober, those usually have me a little past my peak time and usually climbing the walls around release day. We use metal cage so there is no need for removal.

 

I’m hoping to go down to one full orgasm every two months, and getting a ruin every three weeks. But it’s ultimately up to my Wife, and she sometimes likes to tell me I’m getting a ruin and then take me over the edge to a full. She’s limited erections to one a week, usually Saturday night for some teasing and edging.
We haven’t had piv since Dec 3rd and still have about 3 weeks to go before her doc said she should be ok to start having intercourse again after a vaginal surgery. Feeling piv again has taken over my sexual focus over hoping for an orgasm

 

That cage looks huge in the photographs but they list it as being 58mm not sure how they measure that, it looks twice as long as my BAW that has bigger measurements lol

 

For perspective. Its not on for once being electric wtf I am doing cage is on lol

 

My BAW is 69mm from the top of the ring to the front of the cage so its not far off, but yours just looks huge lol it must be the design

 

I find that when im locked and still really want to cum, I never want to cum in my cage, I want out and to cum lol

 

i’ve always been more a journey vs destination kind of guy. i like it when she keeps kicking my release farther and farther down the road. honestly we don’t even talk about it anymore. longest i’ve gone is caged for 76 days, with a couple of “forced” orgasm where she’s basically tortured me til i came and then some with her magic wand. but once i got out, and we fucked, yeah it was good, but it was over way too soon. i like the desperation that being caged and locked brings. that obviously lasts way longer than one or even a few orgasms. and hey, while i’m locked, she gets her pussy worshipped even more than i already worship it. win win as far as we’re concerned

 

That's like buying all best running gear and then going for a run but taking shortcuts.

 

My wife occasionally lets me out while we are playing so I can cum.. However, last time (about 2 weeks ago) I was able to cum while we were messing around. After I was done I lost interest (as always) in what we were doing. I discussed this with my wife recently. So, we decided not to let me cum for at least 3 months. But we will probably go longer. So, instead of letting me out on the rare occasion it looks like I will be locked all the time now. Even when we play. My fault for saying something. But I hate it when I lose interest. So, this is for the best for us both.