So I was thinking about things on my walk today, and was reflecting on things that I have learned in the years since I started exploring my non-vanilla side in real life, and it made me wonder - what lessons have you learned during your chastity journey? I can start - I have learned that, like all things in life, balance is key. Finding balance between my desires/fantasies/needs/etc and those of my partner, and making sure that I take a step back out of the fantasy "fog" that I can get myself in and make sure that I am not imposing/pressuring anything on my partner that she does not want to do or is uncomfortable doing. Also finding balance between "play time" and real life. I found it was quite easy to get down a deep rabbit hole of my own fantasies, and lose sight of my partner's point of view on things. (I am much kinkier than she is). Oh and I also learned that when I am really, really horny after being locked up for a while, I tend to do a lot of dumb things late at night. On more than one occasion the Amazon truck has dropped off a box of sex toys that I had forgotten that I had ordered... So what have you learned?