Is there any training school for subs?

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    After reading several posts from men in FLR, having a hard time controlling their alpha nature .

    I remember reading " the story of O " who was sent to a training facility for slaves.
    Surely in todays world there must be such places.
    If not , it would be a great business to get into . Both for the training of male and female sub/ slaves .
     
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    I've been joking with my sub that I want to open a Reform School for the unaware, immature, or unlucky. It would be more like a charm school with life coaching. Teach them how to improve their social and dating skills, build confidence, teach them emotional intelligence. There are so many guys out there who'd make great partners, but their horrible clothes or awkward behavior shoot them in the foot.
    I'm half serious about doing it. Maybe a YouTube series??
     
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    There are loads of groups around who run various events & gatherings along those lines.
    OWK & FemDom Society are two I know of, just off the top of my head.
    Thing is, such things require significant funding and investment, which naturally should come from the sub(s) so what you end up with is essentially just group Pro-Dommery.
    Nothing whatsoever wrong with that, but it's conceptually very different I think from the OP idea. Or (if memory serves) the story of O.
     
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    The Mistress who trained me was a strong advocate of the exchange concept.
    She'd send her subs off to live with other ladies for periods of time, abroad in some cases, and similarly have subs from other ladies over to live with her.

    Similar idea and goals, but slightly different way of doing it.
     
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    While technically not a "School" I found that local kinksters that were found on Fetlife, frequently have sessions on various BDSM topics and, lately (due to damand, I think), they have started to have demonstrations and educational meetings on the Dom/sub relationship and FLR's and even extending that to feminization and sissification. It's not a regular course as the topics of their upcoming meetings are driven by the interests of the group. Being based on BDSM, they tend to base things more on power exchange, but there are clearly those in leadership who are in long term FLR's. Mistress and I have found certain meetings to be very interesting and useful, if for no other reason than to discuss vaious issues in person with others of the same ilk.
     
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    That sounds great, but weren't there major "RL" practical difficulties for the subs?
     
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    The only place I know of, as an actual training facility, is La Domaine Esemar In upstate NY. My wife and I were lucky enough to spend spend some time there earlier this year and we loved it massively, and plan to go back.
     
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    I think any professional dungeon would be able to arrange training in very many different specialities
     
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    It's certainly fair to say she is not for everyone.
     
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    You'd have to have someone who has an established "curriculum" oriented toward training someone as a sub in order to do that effectively. There are probably a few people who could do something like that off the cuff, but I suspect they'd be few and far between, and I doubt many even professional dungeons have that kind of person lying around.
     
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    Ok, now I'm at a laptop I can search for adult content on :)

    La Domaine - they are in a small town in upstate NY. Very rural and secluded. Large dungeon in the basement, and a 'bed and dungeon' setup, with Ms Couple, the house Domme, and several other visiting Dom/Sub's - we rented the bed and dungeon and provided our own entertainment - but you can go for classes, training, sessions etc - they're super flexible, very homey and welcoming - they have people travel from all over the place to visit them.

    http://www.ladomaine.com/
     
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    I have often mentioned in other post that I see a Lady who loves nothing more than to humiliate and whip me .
    My Queen is not a Pro, just a Lady I met thru Craigslist.

    My trouble is I go from wanting to be her sissy slave ,to not wanting anything to do with her .
    Often my swings are for months at a time.( mostly my not wanting her).

    I put an application to see a Pro Domme who organizes groups, and workshops.
    I'm seeking something to kick me into permanent submission to my Queen.

    I wonder if it is a chemical imbalance in me somehow.

    Being "owned by her" for a month or more is so natural for me at times .
    No decisions just the feeling of being her lowly inferior sub/ sissy .

    I have considered hypnosis ,but that could be easily gotten out of hand by those who have the power .
    My Queen I trust , but with no will of my own, and being familiar with hypnotism, I find it hard to put my trust in a stranger.
     
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