Hello everyone, my name is Lillian and I'm from Ireland. I am a feminine male with an interest in older dominant men and younger / same age dominant ladies. I have little experience with chastity but my curiosity is growing by the day. I try to be open and express myself in as healthy a way as I can without advertising my kinks. Quite self reliant and alternative in outlook, love travelling and making art. Not looking for online key holders, here learn and meet interesting people and perhaps even find that elusive someone. Thanks for reading and have a lovely day. Lil XOX
Welcome! My limited advice is to just dive in. Learn on the go. Well, it's what I am doing, it probably isn't the best way....
Welcome Lillian! Some quick advice: 1. measure (you prolly wont find the right cage the first time but at least it doesnt have to go in the bin straight away) 2. Take your time, chastity is not a rush kink and you will have to learn to know your body in a different way. 3. Like Consensus said, go for it and have fun!
Thank you B&M! Appreciate the advice and will do! I'm in no hurry but not afraid to go deeper when opportunity knocks
Clear as bells thank you! Appreciate the caution From the perspective of someone not at this point over my head - I hope you don't feel that way most of the time, if you do a mental health professional might be helpful x
@Lillian Hi and welcome to the Mansion. Chastity has its benefits and it seems to me that those who let it gradually progress, rather than rushing in, seem to last the longest.
Hello @Mistress B Thank you kindly. I like what you say and tend to agree, I smoke weed so no real fear of me rushing into anything. Here to learn from the experience of others really, benefits definitely and consequences too. I'm curious so I'm here x
Welcome to the Mansion. I myself am new to this experience & loving what I’ve got rolling with my wife/KH. Here on the site to learn & grow.
Welcome to CM. It is a wonderful place to learn and exchange experiences. What I like best about it is that it let's you see others have similar interests and have found ways to express their desires. Good luck finding your way.