Wife and I play with chastity of and on over the past 5 years or so. Every time we've played I'm the one who suggests I lock up for her. Every time. Normally it's for a week or 10 days - it always includes elements of FLR with lots of servitude etc - and then she unlocks me, we have sex and the cage goes away for a few months or more. Recently we went through this cycle and I automatically put the cage away as I knew the drill. A few days later (while I'm still unlocked) we discussed having sex in the evening. That night as we were getting ready for bed she turns and says "I don't think I'm feeling it tonight. I think I'm just going to have you lock up. You can work on lot of acts of service until I think you've earned it" I know compared to some stories on here this might seem pretty lame but I'm very encouraged that perhaps she's seeing this as something more "for her" rather than just humouring me which I've sometimes felt in the past. I can honestly say this is the first time out of many lockups that I'm locked up because she told me to with no prompting.
That sounds like some real progress to me! She's starting to take the initiative and your best bet is to be patient and wait for Her to thik avout your situation and then have the idea to unlock you. Then, She will be able to mentally link the benefits received by both of you to Her control. Once She realizes the power She possesses, great things will happen! (Be careful what you wish for!) Of course, you should serve Her in as many ways as are possible, but do not beg for release.
This is the beginning of the end. Savor any freedom that remains. Soon she will want you caged all the time. Enjoy the ride.
i re-read the initial post again and again, but I fail to identify anything lame in it... I think this is exciting! Happy for the two of you and have fun
Another more recent development: yesterday she confided that she has some anxiety about having me wear it outside the house so she has decided I'm to put it on as soon as I get home every day and take it off when I leave for work in the morning. At first I was slightly disappointed, but the more I think about it, the more I'm coming to realize this is her way of thinking through how best this can be our new normal. If she had wanted to she could have just said "I think we should take a break until I can get my head around feeling more comfortable with you wearing it out of the house" but instead she is interested in finding a way to keep me locked up when it really matters - in her presence.
This is how it was for me until just a few days ago. Give it time and I am sure she will have you doing continuous wear
Sounds like your journey is getting interesting. I hope for as much to come my way. I think i will go to bed tonight wearing my cage and see if my wife notices.
Why is she nervous about it? If she’s worried something will happen and you won’t have the key get a key safe from 3Dkink - they’re very discreet - and you can carry it with you. If she’s worried someone else will notice, that’s not her problem. She married a big boy - you can handle it. She needs to take care of your dick, not your ego.
She mentioned she was having a mini-anxiety attack while we were driving somewhere. "What if you had a medical emergency and they couldn't get it off". I agree it doesn't make a ton of sense. But she's the boss. It has nothing to do with my ego. If it were up to me it would be on all the time.