Hi all, just curious (as always :0) Do any of you find being caged increases your level of arousal? I find the more I’m caged the more I think of sex and in some respects the more easily I’m turned on by things that never really aroused me before. Certainly I seem to notice my penis/ clitty or what ever you like to call it, I know @MistressS likes me to refer to it as my clitty (0: I know there is a natural increase the longer the time between releases but if I’m not wearing a cage and went several weeks without a release I’m definitely not as aroused so easy as when I’m caged.
While I can't speak from experience most are likely to be aroused. It's like a child the more he can't have something the more he desires it. When you are caged My sissy you realize you have no control now it arouses you. Dressing to be femininized arouse you. While uncaged knowing you can do as you please there is no arousal, but when controlled you mind shifts into a different gear. I bet you never thought you'd wear female panties stockings and such, but now you do. That arouses you though before it may not have. MistressS
it is a constant reminder. You're always aware of it, and at the same time you're aware of what it means, which is that you can do nothing about the arousal it is, in part, causing. It's a perfect, masochistic torture.
@MistressS as always you are correct x It’s an odd thing as I love the state of arousal and miss it when it’s not there and yet can’t wait for that same release (talk about contradiction). As for the feminisation side you’re right I’d never have thought I’d enjoy it half as much as I do.
For me its an event or the season that awakens my arousal. Not that I cant be aroused at any time, but triggers cause more of a reaction. Case in point, during the late spring to early fall our backyard pool is open. Depending on the temperature and the sunlight available, my wife will be naked while she relaxes. This causes me to look, watch, and struggle in my cage. Worse is when she has a GF over and they touch or even play, I go out of my mind. Prior to this last year, if my wife had a business event and wore something sexy, it would also influence me and a reaction. Now the worse is when we are relaxing either in the house or the hot tub and she reaches over. Now I am really aroused and also struggle there is nothing I can do unless she unlocks me.
I am locked in a stainless steel Nub, there is no way to remove the device or touch the little member which makes me feel more submissive, feminine, and arouses. The only way to get relief is to connect a TENS to the leads within the device but the power unit and cables are locked in a time release safe. Sissy just has to endure until the safe can be opened.
This may sound odd to some but you mind in My opinion is a sexual organ too. That's why many get aroused being locked as they think and feel it. MistressS
The mental aspect of being caged can be as exciting as the metal bonds of the device itself. Feeling it and knowing you can not do anything really plays mind games with you, especially when you try to get erect.
This. I will admit that at times - like when work or family stress is at its peak - my arousal level disappears like it normally would pre-cage. But Once that stress is gone, I've found that my arousal level tends to come roaring back full force. Cause it's often been days/weeks since I've come and damn I'm horny and frustrated. And I can't do anything about it!
An orgasm lasts a very short time. The denial of being locked lasts all day long. For those who aren't experiencing sex as much as they'd like, due to circumstance, station in life, or whatever the case may be, chastity is a path which while the opposite of relief, as by it's very nature a sexual act. It's one that goes on all day and night. If I weren't getting sex anyway, why not pick up the ball and run with it? Now the lack of sex is...sexual. One's mileage, of course, may vary.
I agree about the arousal factor with being caged versus not being caged with orgasm denial. I love the control my wife holds over me especially being in a truly inescapable belt. There have been times over the last 6 years where I have been out of chastity for periods of time. It was just never the same. We’ve both been more committed than ever this year as far as keeping me in my belt when not in use. The arousal has certainly gone up and continues to rise!
As soon as the lock goes "Click", my whole body becomes aroused. Most of the time, my next release is all I think of. What I can do for my Wife(KH) so she might tease me, or release me. I had, maybe 10 orgasms last year, almost all were from my Wife allowing me to masturbate for her. No more PIV and the odd blow job. So, yes, I'm aroused all the time and my Wife knows it and really doesn't care...