In chastity, how often are you allowed orgasms?

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    I've been locked for 105 days with one ruined orgasm at day 61. I've had must shorter lockups of 7days with orgasms in the past. On January 1st my GF informed me i would be locked for longer periods from now on.After 105 days It's very clear to me now she is very capable of keeping me perminatly locked.
     
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    We're trying to have a baby, so a handful of times around (monthly) ovulation. If we are still doing chastity once we aren't trying for a baby anymore, I suspect that it will be less often.

    However, I've still not been locked for more than a week or so.. I think this might change. Ovulation time should be any day. Hopefully afterwards, she just locks me away until next month...
     
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    Not allowed orgasms whilst in chastity mainly CBT and edging
     
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    yup.. in chastity it's zero...
     
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    anal orgasm
     
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    I am permanently lcoked up and mistress only let me orgasm in my chastity once in two to three months
     
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    Unfortunately for me, my wife seems less and less interested in PIV which means my fingers and tongue are far more busy than they used to be. She definitely gets off more this way than if I am in her, so she is naturally happy. Sometimes when I am allowed to do this for her, she will caress my locked up bits and pieces and even finger me. But as she said “This will NOT always happen so enjoy it when it does. The cage is to ensure you focus on ME!”
    And she means it!
    And I do No matter how much I whine or make a fuss - she simply accuses me of being greedy and that is the end of it.
    I am now up to day 44 of this current lock up which is about what I got to last time before she allowed me a cum. This one may well go on much longer as she was pissed off that I didn’t get to 50 days last time!
    I expect (hoping for) a let out after our holiday next month which is approx another 30 days time.
    That will be orgasm number 4 for this year! I think she is trying to make sure I have less and less as she knows I am grumpy and lethargic after cumming. I therefore do not expect to reach double figures this year! (Which I used to do every 2 weeks before we got serious with the cage!!) :-(
     
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    Been caged more than a month, (i think about 6 weeks, stopped counting and dont know exact date if last orgasm) less than 2, but I have a feeling this could go one for about 8 more weeks. Buying a house, moving and she said I'd get to cum when we move into the new house.
     
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    It depends on my wife. Usually once every 10 to 14 days. She really likes it when I am on fire but she also enjoys to see me losing control. (Probably because I am usually a very controlled behaving individual.)
    How I am allow to come is different and (of course) completely up to her. Sometimes I am allowed to do it on my own while she enjoys a coffee and reads a book, sometimes she wants to get fucked und enjoys my desire.

    However an orgasm does not deplete my energy/desire storage completely and it usually takes on day to get me craving again.
     
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    We shoot for one orgasm per month. July was one orgasm. August will also be one orgasm. She will let me out a few times during the month for a stretch as we call it, but that is usually supervised and quick with no orgasm.
     
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    She locked me 6 days ago and has not even remotely come close to letting me out. She teased me on Saturday by sitting on me naked and letting me suck her boobs. As I was sucking she counted down from 10 and left the room when she got to 0.
     
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    My goodness you are spoilt! :)
     
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    While I am not locked 24/7 in my cherrykeeper, I am not permitted orgasm unless permission. Last time I was made to go 60 days without. Currently it’s been 24 days since the last one and have no idea when the next one may be.
    It’s kind of strange, used to being a large volume shooter, but during last orgasm, not my regular huge amount of cum was shot out.. reduced in quality. She laughed and said I don’t even shoot much let alone seem smaller. Then added since I don’t shoot as much anymore, what’s the point of allowing me another cum soon.
     
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    What is piv?
     
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    Penis In Vagina (PIV.) A lot of people object to the acronym. It is a bit clinical, but communicates the activity precisely.
     
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    In the early day of Julie locking me she would go weeks or months without any relief. And then when she did let me out I was never allowed to touch it. It was her job and her job only. Julie would tease me for hours, using her very long nails and sounding rods she started to collect. All that teasing and playing would end with her just stoping or if I was lucky it was a ruined one. She would just stop and watch it jerking all over the place and point and laugh.
    Then we saw a video of a Dom jerking her sub and I fully expected her to stop and ruin it just Like Julie does but no, she gave him a choice. She kept asking him "do you want me to stop or go all the way"? Julie and I looked at each other wondering where this was going. He was begging his Mistress to stop, but she kept going until he shot all over her hand. The Mistress just looked at him and said "whos been very naughty then"? She took her hand and made him lick it clean. I was thinking err gross, but when I looked over at Julie she had that naughty grin on her face and when she looked at me she raised her eye brows and laughed. She smiled and bit her bright red lip like she usually does when an idea gets into her head. I said No way...."we shall see" she replied.
    Now it's all part of the rules, if one the rare event do get to cum she makes sure it is all over her beautiful very long nails and I have to clean them. It's strange, when she is doing it your mind is telling you that you need to cum, but once you have and you know whats coming then you regret it.........
     
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    Since I wrote that my Wife and I agreed it is better if I am no longer allowed even aissygasms . It is almost 6 months since my last one.
     
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    I get the big O every 7 to 14 days. Getting a O in this amount of time is important to me the sub. I AM 62 and keeping my prostrate healthy is important at this age. We have tried milking , but it doesn't seem to work for me . Probably not doing it the right way , or need toys just for that. But to be honest here I would like to go longer without the O because I love the how the affection level in me towards her rises everyday that I haven't had one.
     
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    I am coming up on 4 years in chastity. My wife absolutely loves keeping me denied. In the 4 years she has let me out about 15 times for a few ruined orgasms, sex with numbing cream and condoms (no orgasm, and about 5 times for PIV and an orgasm.

    She allows me to watch porn while caged when she is not home but insists I can only watch BDSM/Femdom/chastity porn. I think she only allows this to keep me super horny and attentive to her. It also gives me ideas on how to make her cum without the use of my tiny locked dick.

    I have purchased many different sizes of dildos that I strap on over my cage and fuck her with when she desires penetration and actually wants to cum from being penetrated.

    She has told me multiple times that her sex life since I have been caged is better then it has ever been in the last 20+ years we have been married.
     
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    You said it for me.
     
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    Hello Den',

    Can you give some more information regarding Orgasms and prostrate healthy?
    I totally agree that the affection level is rising without an Orgasms but it seems that I am way to weak to handle this.
    Honestly I am really feeling it in my lower parts (it's like the body is screaming "Release Me!!").
    I think I would go crazy if I am locked up, but on the same time ... I like the idea.
    I told her today that I am really "nervous" (codeword) and what I should do about it.
    Her answer was: "Keep it! Good night, sweetie".

    Piet
     
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    That is a sentiment shared by many partners on this forum! Mrs Chaste being one of them!
     
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    First half of the year: None. Only monthly prostate milkings.
    Second half: 3 Birthday,Wedding Anniversary and Christmas/New Year
     
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