In chastity, how often are you allowed orgasms?

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    Hello, I see that many of you have been in chastity for a considerable time, 2 questions please. How often do you allow your sub to come? and what about extreme chaffing, especialy if teased and arroused, do youpermit release until healed?
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    For me it's simple. Whenever and wherever Mistress decides.
     
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    Every KH is different with what they want and how the want to control you .
    Question 1.
    I am allowed out every 7 to 10 days for an orgasm.how I get that orgasm is up to her.
    Question 2.
    I have only been released once for chafing in 13 months of 24 / 7 . Got a stern talking to about it. She was mad because I was not taking of her toy. Every day now after my shower I put of couple of drops of baby oil around the base ring and into the cage to keep it oiled.
     
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    When I am locked I am locked continuously with no release until she wants me unlocked. Then I may be allowed an orgasm and locked again shortly after, or I may be allowed a day or so and locked again, or she may decide to let me be free for a longer period of time. The latter is usually the case when I have a business trip or some other reason for her to be uncomfortable with keeping me locked.
     
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    Its been 18 days for me now with no indication when i will get to cum. I am let me out every fourth day for cleaning then locked again. I was hoping for Easter Sunday but that is beginning to look less likely.

    Mike
     
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    When we entered into our FLR I gave complete control of my sex life and orgasms to Princess Di, wreather I'm locked or not.

    So she decides not only when and where, but more importantly, how I am to have sex and orgasms.

    As far as chaffing goes, I have not experienced a case that a little lube (grapeseed oil in my case) couldn't take care of.
     
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    It varies based on what she wants. In my current lockup my orgasms have been spaced out. It has been 9 days, 21 days, 10 days, and currently 4 days going on ???? I do get out for quick cleanings, and maybe a little teasing, but not much.
     
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    Well, never, of course. It's permanent. ;)

    If I'm chafed, the device comes off until things are healed. That's why it's important to test a device for several weeks before going long term.
     
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    I have not been allowed (nor desired) an orgasm from genital stimulation for over a year. In the past year I have had maybe 5 sissygasms while locked in chasyity, the most recent of which was around 2 months ago
    I am healthier and happier than I have ever been in my adult life
     
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    Actually my finger slipped I would say 3 sissygasms :)
     
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    As far as chafing that has not been a problem so nice the last adjustment to my device over a year ago. Before then it was an occasional issue requiring being unlocked for a week or so to heal.
     
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    Since* last adjustment
     
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    Every 2-3 months, while locked. We found that total denial extended the period between which semen looked "off"..or jelly like (Ive had a vasectomy, so it's different than before anyhow) and thicker. When I was still using my dick for pleasure, it was every month to 3 weeks.
     
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    when in chastity, not at all. I'm sixteen days in this latest round. Last time it was 115 days. It is to be signficantly longer this time.
     
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    I get a release every 7 days, usually on Sundays. I didn't get one this Sunday.

    I was offered one last night, but... she let me in for PIV (after a solid cropping and face-sitting session lol) and after perhaps 1 min, she said COME NOW which just threw me right off and I said Mistress I'm sorry give me a minute and she grabbed my hair and shoved my face into her pussy. Chance over lol.
     
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    With my last KH there was never a set amount of time. Every Sunday I was to arrive at his house at 10am. I was unlocked and allowed a long bath to thoroughly clean myself under supervision. He cleaned my device by putting it through the dishwasher so I had about 2 hours out of the device. After my bath would be put in a fresh diaper and would clean his house. Sometimes before he would lock me back in I was allowed to use a vibrator over my diaper and have an orgasm before being locked in.
    But like I said, no set amount of time.
     
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    What is a sissygasm?
     
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    R2002, What is a sisssygasm?
     
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    LOL, still from the sound of things you've not long to wait relatively to others, depends how high your sex drive is how tough this is. I fully understand the Mistress decides, just trying to get a handle on the various time frames I may have to endure :(. I think 7 days would be ok as I have a high sex drive, won't be my choice of course. Thanks all for answers
     
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    I'm sorry I used an unclear term

    A sissygasm is an orgasm brought on by prostate stimulation without any touching of the genitals
     
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    I don't "get" to have an orgasm...I'm only allowed to have a quick ruined orgasms when my Wife(KH) wants to let me to have one. And most of the time she makes me masturbate in front of her. She will watch until I'm about to cum, then she leaves the room and let's me finish off by myself. Which is very humiliating to me. Just lying there with a mess. all by myself.
    So far...No chaffing...:lockkey:
     
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    Same here whenever Mistress decides which has been 1x in last 2 yrs
     
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    It varies depending on her thoughts about it and what she determines is my need. Her normal status is that she feels obligated to provide an orgasm about once a week. I have been giving her permission to omit this duty from her list of chores and sometimes she gets it while other times she just wants to see me with my eyes rolled back into my head.

    I'd be okay with being unlocked once a week or once a quarter as long as it is what she wants for me. She is still working on guilt over not seeing to my needs. I find it hard to convince her that being teased and denied is REALLY, REALLY okay with me but she still struggles with being the dominant in our sexual relationship.
     
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    I personally dont care for any more.
    I dont want the emotional resets.
    My kh is very kind about letting me have ruined orgasms so I can ejaculate, which is prostate healthy. She also likes PIV.
    That's all I want or need.
     
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