Hello everyone . Im back to chastity mansion once again . I started here several years ago . I was married at the time exploring various kinks with my wife. The idea of chastity, orgasom denial ect. was at the top of the list . We had alot of fun with chastity for awhile and then to her it just seemed like a chore bc I was so horny and needy all the time . She had alot over sex drive than I did to begin with. We would pick back up here and there and every time and I would always want more . Crossdressing . She absolutely was against it . But I had had a panty fetish for a long time in secret so I encouraged her to consider it. She finally excepted the idea of wearing panties but nothing further and I was ok with that . To fast forward I always wanted more . From hotwife fantasy in the bed room to real cuckolding. Long story shot after convincing her to find other guys to have sex with she left me for the other guys . I quit all my fetish games , quit wearing chastity/panties. But no matter how hard i tried to stay away and be (normal) I keep coming back.
Sorry to hear that your marriage could not survive. It’s a real shame but it apparently was not meant to be. Hope you are in a good place and welcome back.
Welcome back. You might want to give some thought to what your partner gets out of all of this, as it sounds like you've been pretty focused on your needs
I definitely agree its important to concern yourself with your partners need and wants . Its also important to be yourself and be happy in your own skin. It took me a long time to realize that. It may mean the only female interaction I get is in public with strangers or buying panties on panty deal then i guess thats how it will be .
Well, I'm certainly sorry to hear a tale like that. My now ex wife wanted completely out within about three months of discovering fetish/sissy/forced fem images in my browser history. We are thankfully divorced now, because in my new life, luckily, I found my actual person. Here's the thing, ignore everything else regarding what happened, including comments like were made (pretty harsh Lester) earlier and focus on you for a second. It sounds like this is a deal breaker for you in your relationships, meaning you have the urge to play a little on the chastity/femdom/sissy spectrum. The person you were with is not of consequence, and it's her loss that she lost someone like you, with these interests. Your issue isn't that you are a bad person, or were selfish. Your issue is that you need to and deserve to find someone who gets it, likes it, and wants to play in those parameters with you. My comment would be that you should grow within from the experience, not feel guilty about still having the fantasies, cultivate whatever the fetish is for you, and when ready, find a person more suited to accepting you and your desires as is. Good luck. Take care of yourself out there. M.
Sorry you broke up, but if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. It takes a very special lady to cuck her man and still love him. Your wife was probably too vanilla for you. There are other fish in the sea.
Just try to understand that what you are looking for is the extremely rare and the chances of finding it are slim. You were lucky to be with someone who wanted to give it a try but it ended up being to much for her. You most likely will not find one person to live your fantasies out with but maybe you can find a very open person someday who will be okay with you exploring that outside of the relationship.