Husband texting other women

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  1. krystalasbaby
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    I have been on the other end of things. I did forgive her not once but twice. The whole thing is i never forgot. That right there hindered our relationship and was one thing that led to the divorce.
    Now your problem, yes chastity may help but it is not a perm solution. You definitely need to have a talk a serious talk about what he is looking for in the marriage. Before doing that make sure you have given it thought yourself and know exactly what you are looking for.
    I truly hope everything works out for the both of you.
     
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    @krystalasbaby is right - you need to know what he wants from the marriage. Furthermore, what do YOU want? Although the answer might seem obvious (you want to stay with him and that's why you've been putting up with his wayward ways), it might not be the answer you've got but are reluctant to explore.
     
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    What's wrong if he texts?
    Whatever games the hubby and wife plays in the roles of caged and keyholder it's primatevely the man and woman (regerence to so called sissies ...... no pun intended though)
    If he is a caged with u and be your pet..
    Let him live his life as he wishes as a bilogiy man..

    That's real life and fun I feel


    *Not to hurt anyone here..though I'm caged and love to serve my KH
     
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    It's all about communication and trust. I frequently need to text women other than my Mistress and She trusts me. Our relationship goes deep enough to have enough trust. In this day and age, texting is just another form of communication and I wouldn't get upset if you have trust.
     
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    I doubt trust has anything to do with this. @Misty36 said on page 1 that the women her husband was texting were: an ex-girlfriend he's missing (according to him) and a girl he had a fling with. If that's 'playing chastity', I must have missed something in the introductory class.

    If the wife is aware of and condones the texting game the hubby should be able to show her the texts and have her approval. @Misty36 said nothing about telling him to do this. From where I'm sitting, that's emotional cheating.
     
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