How to get wife to cuck me?

I think you are embarking on dangerous ground if you even hint at it to her. If you suffer from premature ejaculation why not try seeing a good hypnotist as they often achieve good results. Failing that, go to see a doctor who specialises in it and ask for help.

 

Probably not what you want to hear, but you can always try some type of a slip on type dildo so you can penetrate her and not give you any feeling so you won’t be premature. Or you can just use a dildo on her when you’re performing oral. That takes care of the problem of your wife being penetrated. But that doesn’t fix your problem of you wanting to be a cuckold or being put in the chastity. Hard to tell from one paragraph but it looks like you have two problems to me.

Only real advice I have for you is if your wife is vanilla don’t open up to her with everything you got. It’ll be way too much for her. Take it real slow!

Good luck

 

No, I am not against it but from your first post it seems your wife is very vanilla and my worry for you would be that it could easily spoil your marriage.

 

Your wife doesn't find it in the least bit odd that you two have only had intercourse 3 times in the first two years of a new marriage? It seems that you want to be locked up and cucked yet neglected to mention that to your wife before you asked her to marry you. The simple reality is that most women only want to have sex with the man they marry and by not telling her the truth, you have created one hell of a problem because sex is important to a relationship for reasons far beyond the physical act. When you don't want to have sex with her, I can assure you that the first thing that goes through her mind is, "what's wrong with me."

If you are truly serious about this, then you need to come clean. It's not fair to her to continue living a lie.

 

have you thought of counselling - both of you?

 

I think raising cuckoldry is dangerous. It can only go two ways - happy or very very unhappy

 

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with bringing up the subject of male chastity, as long as it’s done right. But the whole cuckold thing is too much for a non kink vanilla girl. Move forward in slow increments and see how shev does, and don’t push or force your ideas on her. Many of us here including myself have done exactly that and it’s very counterproductive sometimes even disastrous.

 

So you're not currently caged? There's nothing wrong with asking her to be your key holder. The majority of us chaste that have partners were the ones who initiated the idea of chastity.

As far as cuckolding goes I have no personal experience but I understand it to be a slippery slope. I know you've been cuckolded but if your partner is unfamiliar with the lifestyle it could be taken offensively as others above this post have mentioned. Ask her if she'll lock you and just go for the ride and see what happens.

If she really desires lasting intercourse you could always try using a strapon on her if she'll let you. Occasionally my mistress and I will use one if she wants that kind of sex and for it to last longer.

 

You should just start with chastity. Treat it like a new game and not a reveal of a big hidden fetish. And certainly don't bring up that you did that with an ex. She won't be impressed .

 

It's a tough conversation to have, my mistress took a couple of weeks to think about it before saying yes. She wasn't convinced when I tried to explain it to her. I ended up buying her a book about male chastity on Amazon, after she read what Chastity was about from the female perspective she was all in. The book I bought was simply titled Male Chastity" written by Lucy Fairbourne. It's pretty vanilla but touches on most aspects related to Chastity. Mistress Jules that is a Mod here as well as a professional domme has written a few books that are down to earth and help women understand what Chastity is about from the female perspective.

Definitely listen to @Jessica Alexander and don't bring up doing this with your Ex she'll just feel like she's competing sexually with your Ex and will probably make her feel insecure. If you get so far, make Chastity something special for your wife and your relationship.

 

So you married a woman without telling her about your sexual desires? No offense, but that wasn’t very smart or fair to her.

 

There is nothing wrong with discussing sexual fantasies with your wife. In fact, it is part of a healthy relationship. But the line you are looking to cross is taboo in many peoples eyes. The same way it would be to ask your wife if you can bring another woman into the bedroom, asking her to be fucked by another man is a pretty big pill to swallow. You could possibly talk about chastity and see where it leads but if you truly have these desires then you will possibly resent her in the long term when you are suppressing them.