I am a long time lurker that finally decided to become a member. I have been impressed with how mature and respectful this community is towards each other. I like the fact that members with differing opinions can disagree with each other without devolving into childish attacks. The overall tone of the community seems to focused on trying to disseminate information and help others with questions and concerns. This is the type of community that I decided I would like to be involved with. Chastity for me and my wife is an on and off type of thing. As it should be, it depends if she is in the mood to play or not. When she is in the mood and decides it is time to play, it is an incredible experience. For her it is not really about orgasm denial, but rather about control. Thankfully, this really feeds into my submissive nature. Her favorite activity when we are playing is to watch me rub my caged clit while I am in sissy mode. She will egg me on with verbal humiliation until I cum. Usually the orgasm produced from this activity is very similar to a ruined orgasm. She says that it is huge turn on for her to watch me struggle to orgasm and for that orgasm to turn out to be only moderately pleasurable to me. FLR is something that I would like to explore further. When I talk to her about it, she is somewhat confused as to where we would take it because I am the one who has done all of the cooking, cleaning and all other domestic tasks in the household since before we were even married. I guess she is right that we are pretty much there already, but I suppose I am really looking for a verbal or formal confirmation that that is where we are at. I don't want to ramble any more than I already have, but I wanted to introduce myself and give a little background as well. Thanks Phen
Welcome to the community you should see if your wife would be interested to also join you never know could be the start of something new for you both
Welcome, phenious, and I hope you're happy here. It is a nice place, and quite comfy. I hope your wife decides to join during one of her 'playtime moods'!
Welcome, always great to have another submissive husband here. I fully understand your need for her to give you a verbal or formal confirmation of your submissive status.
Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome! To those that suggested that my wife join the group, that is a hope of mine. However, she is quite apprehensive about putting herself out there "like that". I certainly encourage her to do so, but I don't push her to do so...least I be accused of topping from the bottom!
Welcome. It sounds like you have already developed a feel for FLR and good luck reaching the stage you desire.