Hello from a grateful husband with an amazing wife that is now embracing our Chastity journey!

My curiosity in Male Chastity began around 5 years ago. As I researched for a couple of years my fascination and desire to experience Chastity grew and I finally got the nerve to discuss it with my loving Wife 3 years ago.

Her reaction, like many others, was “You want me to do what”. After the initial shock and deep lengthy discussions, she hesitantly told me I could buy a cheap generic Chastity cage.

When it arrived, she allowed me to put it on but didn’t want to touch it and definitely didn’t want to see or touch the key. I wore it for about a day and she told me to take it off. She never initiated Chastity and always hesitantly agreed when I mentioned it.

Of course I made the mistake that many others do, expecting her to go at my fast pace and trying to control how my Chastity would be. The advice on Chastity Mansion was a blessing! Understanding that I need to let her go at her pace and separate my fantasy from the reality of Chastity was a true turning point. I was still initiating Chastity but stopped pressuring for her to tease me relentlessly, telling her what I wanted her to do, and constantly asking if I could give her orgasms every night while I was locked up. She slowly began to become more comfortable with me being in a Chastity cage.

Fast forward to 6 months ago when she texted me to put my Chastity cage on a leave the key on her nightstand. I put the cage on and left the key. When she came home she took the key and I didn’t see it again for 28 days!!!!

During that time, we went about our normal lives with me giving massages. Foot rubs, helping out more around the house etc. I did feel frustrated when I felt she had “forgotten” I was in Chastity but I just kept reminding myself that what I truly wanted was her to be in control and eventually she even began asking for unreciprocated orgasms.

However, she continued to feel guilty about getting pampered while I was denied. We made breakthrough when she finally understood she was giving me exactly what I wanted by locking me up and denying me.

She even bought a crop and paddle and started spanking me when she felt like it. I had always enjoyed being spanked and asked her to do it but it was the same as Chastity, she needed it to be at her pace, when she feels comfortable, and when she wants to do it. And boy does she ever feel comfortable and want to do it now!!

Since then, she has initiated Locking me up 4 times for about 2 weeks each time. However, I have been denied and orgasm for the last 42 days, with her teasing me more. Her favorite (and mine) is me giving her a shower every day. While I wash her hair and body she ever so casually rubs against me. Ahhh such beautiful torture!!!

That’s brings me to last Sunday night when I mentioned upgrading to a custom Chastity cage and showed her the Mature Metal Jailbird. I have wanted a metal cage from the beginning but it was way outside her comfort zone. Her initial reaction was the same, saying she wasn’t comfortable with it and it looked mid evil. I told her I wanted her to be completely comfortable, didn’t sulk about it and just let it go. To my complete surprise, she texted me at work on Tuesday and told me she was sorry she reacted the way she did, that she had researched the Jailbird, and told me to order the plastic sizing rings so we could get the measurements and order the Chastity cage.

Sorry for rambling through my introduction but I am so excited that our Chastity journey has really started to progress and I want to express how much I love my Amazing, Beautiful, and Understanding Wife! Chastity or not, she will always be enough for me!!!

 

Thank you!

 

Thank you. So far it has been a great experience with some ups and downs.

 

Thank you MissyB!

 

Thank you for the warm welcome BarbCD. I am so looking forward to the Jailbird!

 

Thank you!

 

We have a great sex life and was never really a Masturbator but have become premature as I get older and over time I have become more submissive and my Wife more dominant in the bedroom.

Most of all I love giving complete control of my orgasms and our sex life to my Wife under her terms while she allows me to pamper her!!!! It is absolutely the best feeling in the world!!!!!

 

Good luck!

 

Thank you! I am waiting on the sizing rings from MM. I am concerned about getting the correct measurements. Do you have any advice or tips!