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    #1 David F, May 9, 2020
    Hi there!

    I'm David, guess I'll give brief run-through of my experience with Femdom and chastity.

    I was interested in Femdom from a very early age, but chastity started about 10 years ago with a pro-Domme who controlled when I could cum. I saw Her for about 5 years, I wasn't always locked into a device but I was good and didn't disobey Her instructions, the last 2 years I saw Her she decided on a permanent ban!

    She retired about 4 years ago, I drifted away from chastity after that but increasingly I've really missed it.

    Lately I've been practicing self-chastity and have totally abstained from cumming, but in all honesty I've found it a bit empty without doing it under someone else's orders. My willpower is good and I can resist the urge to touch myself, but I start to think "what's the point?"

    I'm not looking for a key-holder, but it would be wonderful to meet a dominant Lady who took pleasure in controlling when I could cum. But in all honesty I would be really happy if I could just talk to someone who would be willing to order me, even as a one-off interaction, to never cum or touch myself again, to make me make a serious promise to them I won't ever break my word and to always remember my frustration is worthwhile because it makes them happy!

    I feel I have enough self discipline and that would be enough motivation to stop me from ever breaking my word, and if this person didn't even want further contact or follow up I would be happy to obey and could go on alone knowing my chastity was under orders.

    I don't really want to pay a pro-Domme and tell them to order me as it feels no different to self-chastity. I've been too nervous or never found the right time to ask a Lady if they would be willing to order me, but hopefully with enough like-minded people in Chastity Mansion I may find the person here :)
     
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    #2 Eve, May 9, 2020
    Welcome to CM have fun and enjoy
     
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    #3 David F, May 9, 2020
    Thank you!
     
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    #4 madams-sissysub, May 9, 2020
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #5 MissyB, May 11, 2020
    Welcome to our community and I hope you enjoy being part of it.
     
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    #6 LesterBallard, May 11, 2020
    hello and welcome. We have a personals section on the main page so you may want to post something there asking if anyone's interested in interacting with you. Good luck
     
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    #7 David F, May 13, 2020
    Hello and thank you, I'll check it out :)
     
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    #8 CagedJohn, May 13, 2020
    Welcome!
     
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    #9 caged certo, May 13, 2020
    David.
    A warm welcome from the Netherlands.
    You will find Friends enough here .
    To make it easier, please let us know where you are living
     
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    #10 David F, May 13, 2020
    Hello and thank you. Ok will do, thought I'd added it to my profile, I'm in the UK, I'll add it now.
     
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    #11 jemima, May 13, 2020
    heloo @David F and welcome to here and I hope you like it here as well.
     
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    #12 David F, May 13, 2020
    Hello and thank you
     
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    #13 Cumschot, May 13, 2020
    Welcome here
     
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    #14 MouseTee, May 13, 2020
    Hi David F and welcome to the mansion! :)
     
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