Formula for increasing obedience

Hi! I've been away for a long time and I'm so glad you're still here Dogchase... , you were one of my favorite posters!

I'm sure you have a winning formula here for 99% of men. The only sex from you and not fantasy/masterbation/ other is the biggest one imo, along with humiliation, sets the wheels in motion. Making YOU what he fantasizes about, and then humiliation sets the stage for total obedience since nearly anything else you ask of him is easy compared those trials and tribulations!
So I can see how your formula works quite well over time.

I wish you ever increasing authority over your pet man, and all possible blessings for you.

P.S. - I love your avatar!

 

Very astute. Glad to have found this thread. Thank you

 

It seems like at some point, you would be able to get him to admit that he likes having you in charge. Once he does that, you can start getting him to agree to rules and accept punishments etc. I think that would be easier than having to compete with his other interests.

 

I agree with you. In a nutshell, what she is talking about is the difference between a consensual slave and a non consensual slave. Ingrid Bellemere and Mistress Scarlett, or you, me, the Toms, and almost all the others on this site. I have no desire either to become an object for someone so they never have to lift a finger again in their lives.

 

I’m sure this will work, because this is almost exactly how my Madam and I progressed! Keep it up!

 

I agree with your approach. I would have never guessed that I would have ever done some of the humiliating things my femdom roommate has made me do while locked in chastity. What's amazing is how exciting it was to have my limits pushed by her. a little history and an example of having my limits pushed to the max.

My kinky girlfriend/roommate left and she said one of her friends I had met was looking for a place to share. Two months of great sex later she was my femdom roommate and I was her blackmailed sub.

She discovered that I was playing a kinky version of Truth or Dare online. I let her watch while I was online. She took over my account and began posting Dares that players could request. She used these dares as a source of weekend entertainment for her and her likeminded girlfriends.

She would scan my computer and check out what porn I would watch. One weekend she locked me in one of the many chastity cages she had for me and had me put on a black lacey crotchless panties. Then she said get dressed because she had a surprise.

Once in the car she said she had been scoping out the porn I had been watching and noticed quite a few gloryhole videos. So we were going to the ABS with gloryhole booths to fulfill my curiosity.
The short version of that crazy night was she cuffed my wrist behind me, stripped me down to just my chastity cage and panties and had me lick guys on either side, balls and the tip of their cocks. Then she took care of finishing them off and made them each finish with me getting a facial.
Then I got dressed and cleaned up as best I could. When we got in the car she said, “Come on you look like you could use a drink.”