First time keyholder

Nobody seems to be replying to your questions, so I will put in my 2P! I don't think there is any real limit to the time a man can go without cumming, the body has a normal response if necessary, its called a wet dream. There are some discussions about men's health if he does not cum but I believe on the whole that long abstention is not an issue for health.

Once a man gets used to not cumming, it is often the case that he does not want to cum because of the drop and the time it takes to get back to that nice frustrated feeling. And because of that it does not impact normal life.

I am sure that there are many, many wants from men from their keyholder. For me it is not to be forgotten, it is nice to be teased and reminded regularly that I am locked up. Tease and denial are good but make sure you know when to stop so he doesn't go over the edge. I love being able to worship my KH and to give her pleasure and orgasms. It is so nice to be able to concentrate on her feelings and not be thinking of when am I going to cum. I like a strict KH who I know is not going to weaken and let me out because she feels sorry for me. I also like a KH who looks smart and wears sexy clothes. It is all part of the tease.

I like a contract that lays down my release schedule and the duration of the contract, for me punishment is an important part of the dynamic, both increases in release time and CP if I forget my place in the relationship.

 

I wear my device 24/7 and have gone over 80% of a year without it being removed at all. My last orgasm was over a year ago.

It will take time to work up to long periods, and it not for everyone, but it is definitely possible.

 

Funny, that's usually the other way around. Kinky women are such a rare breed

 

First, welcome to the site!

Second, I would highly suggest going into the Female Keyholders Forum and asking these questions to the other Women who have verified. It's an invaluable perspective. My Mistress really values corresponding with other actual, real Women (unlike some other sites where it's anybody's guess on who is on the other end of the keyboard...)

Third, everything You've mentioned is possible. W/we've been a Femdom couple since the beginning over 14 years ago. W/we still learn a lot about how it works every day, but it's all trial and error. If You try things, and You care about Your partner/submissive, You and Your sub will enjoy the ride.

xo,
nancy

 

Welcome to the mansion!

 

Hello UKdomF and welcome. Perhaps someone has already asked this question, so I apologize if you have already explained this, but I am curious to know how you became interested in male chastity. I also wonder how you would introduce this to another woman if she asked about it. Greetings from a ex-pat in the US.

 

hi and welcome

 

Good morning Miss. I hope you are well. I find myself in a similar boat to you and we both seem to be from Yorkshire, although I’m right on the Durham border. Hopefully we may be able to assist eachother in this journey. Many thanks, Sub m