Just want to say hello and share my journey into full time chastity and FLR. I’ve been married to my wife for 20 years. Things got stale for several years and about 2 years ago we had an awakening. We started exploring some kink and came across chastity cages while searching some toy sites. At first I was like no way. Then I started doing some researching. Reading a lot of the psychological articles out there and watching an healthy amount of porn with chastity involved. I quickly realized something that had been missing in me... being controlled and dominated. I brought it back up to the wife and she immediately had a spark in her eye and took control from that night. It quickly became apparent that she had also done some of her own research. That night we started normally as we usually do then she surprised me. She brought me right to the edge and then stopped. She told me she would not be allowing me to cum and I was to pick a cage to lock up in. that was so intense. Over the next few months we went through several cheap knockoff cages including the holy trainer. most I didn’t like due to comfort issues and I made her aware that I was able to pull myself out of them to have a wank and push back in. This led us to where we are now. She insisted on a piercing and a cage that could not be defeated. I am now in an Evotion bijou with the Frenum piercing. I have been locked since Jan.1 with no release. my only pleasure is from pleasing her however she chooses. She regularly uses various paddles, canes and crops on me as well as regular peggings... she has promised that I will not be released until I am capable of cumming from being pegged. I’ve been close but just cannot get over the edge. we are learning more and working on becoming a complete FLR marriage. I have found that sex is so much more emotional for me when I know there will be no physical release for me and I have accepted that. I get so much more pleasure this way... I hope to one day be cucked by her. We have talked about it. She’s open to it but just not ready to take the plunge... yet. My hope is to one day be completely denied penetration sex with her for good or at least very long periods while she is getting all the cock she wants from large bulls.... more later but that’s my intro for now.
Welcome to Chastity Mansion. Sounds like you and your wife are well on your way to this enjoyable lifestyle. Once you finally enjoy the pleasure of coming while being pegged, you'll experience a whole new world. W/we just began experimenting with sounds. The first time, he was so worried and scared once he realized what I was actually doing due to him having a hood on while being spread eagle. The second time he was spread eagle without the hood where he could experience the thrill and anticipation of the sound actually going in. I pushed him to his limit and wouldn't stop until he experienced the pain. It's amazing the mental toughness we can push you subs through all while knowing you're excited at the same time. Kudos and can't wait to hear about your future stories. Please ask your wife if I can follow you. Is she on here as well? Fingers crossed!!!