First experiences of a gay couple (cont.)

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    Yes, I'm so, so lucky to have him as my partner

    Day 12 here and getting my mind ready for the long haul
     
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    Day 15 today, a quarter of the way towards 60 days. I like to set a timescale even though my bf won't as it helps me count, and get through, the days

    Two days ago we had amazing sex again, which was despitey pleas with the cage on throughout

    Interesting I should say it like this. He didn't milk me this time, but rather teased me. He has a way of rubbing my balls getting faster and faster, more and more intense. I feel so, so close to orgasm. I even shout out that I'm almost there and please, please keep going. But deep inside I know that it won't happen. I begged him, but he just smiled

    He of course emptied his huge load deep into me. I love this feeling of having his seed inside me and don't want to let it out for as long as possible

    Afterwards we talked and he admitted that he sometimes felt bad about not letting me cum. To this I told how sensitive my body had become and how much I adored his caresses, how much I loved to feel his shaft and his seed deep inside me, and how much fun (and frustrating) it was when he teased my balls

    I felt I needed to encourage him and make him feel better about denying me. I think it worked judging his more confident mood since

    But this also fills me with trepidation. I feel that this round will go far beyond Christmas, far beyond the previous 38 day record of mine, maybe even far beyond 60 days

    I even told him (was this a mistake?l that at 60 days I probably would want relief even then, if I had got so far. From there the 90 day mark is so far off :cool:

    And from last night to this morning my cock has been trying so desperately to erect pushing on the cage with all the rather feeble strength it has. It seems my cock too wants to celebrate reaching 15 days and encourage me to go on
     
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    Trust me. At 69 days you’ll be begging for an orgasm! I’m currently in day 53 without anything but anal play from my wife… I’m aching for her to take my penis and give me some proper relief!
    I’m horny ALL the time. I’m waking up with the tension of excitement yanking my balls away. They say men think about sex every 7 seconds? I am currently smashing that. It’s constant!

    Good luck!!!
     
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    I'm almost begging now for one. I guess that my careless words may only encourage my bf to push even beyond 60. We'll see

    Yes, I'm on sex it seems 24/7, to which my bf tells me to focus on other things. Easy to say
     
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    Well I keep getting relief sooner than expected. Monday was only day 16 and we enjoyed each other's bodies

    I was hungry for sex and he could sense it. He opened the gate first with his wonderful cock, but it wasn't long before his first had pushed its way in and was teasing my prostrate

    Couldn't stop it. The cum flowed. It's a kind of relief to let the cum go (the very first time it happened I thought I was peeing :D), but not the kind of relief that comes from the ecstatic joy of an orgasm

    While his first was still in place he started to stroke my dick. He saw the excitement on my face building and building. Then he just stopped. A tease

    He repeated four times (I think). Then on the fifth round he didn't stop. And the cum squirted out as I was in ecstasy. He wanted me to cum. He enjoys seeing my joy after a period of denial

    I've come to the conclusion that he's too nice a guy to be completely dominant. But that's not a problem really: I get the best of both worlds

    Today is only day 2 and it's now 11 days to Christmas. I suspect the next orgasm will now be after Christmas :cool:
     
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    Oh how wrong I get this. Only 4 days ago I was given a second orgasm after only 2 days without. I wonder whether I am be reset ahead of a long period of denial?

    After 2 huge orgasms so close together the return to horniness is taking longer than usual ... like when I first started. It'll come though. I'm sure :p:cool::D

    He's also giving me a rest from the cage though I have to admit that I am now psychologically caged. I simply don't dare .. at least in these early days of denial

    Maybe my Christmas present is going to be the command to put the cage on. It's sitting by the bed with padlock unlocked. He doesn't even have to be here when it happens. He just says the word and I obediently obey. A click and a photo to him ... and I'm done

    Should I be taking bets on when this happens? Christmas Eve maybe?
     
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    That would be my guess, kind of like, enjoy yourself for a few days, then get ready for a 1-year lockup.
     
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    OMG, that's a tough answer. Fearful of something as long as a year. Would I survive it?
     
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    Of course you would. It's not like you wouldn't be getting any action for that year, I'm sure there will be times when your butt will feel like it can't take anymore, but your dick on the other hand, would gladly take more but it won't be getting any.
     
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    I reckon his dick would respond from this ass not being able to take anymore without neurological permission!
     
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    LOL, I do believe you are correct, and sorry to say @dzséti , but that's usually the point at which wives decide that there's no longer a reason to ever unlock their husbands. Let's hope for your sake that that rule doesn't apply to gay couples.
     
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    Maybe he just wants to not play with Chastity for a little bit, which you should respect and enjoy while you can. It will make being locked more fun if it's not completely the boring old norm. Being hyper sexual does get old after a while and, while this forum and others like it may be fun at times, don't let the input and fantasies of others with very different relationships affect the balance of your own because it sounds like you have a very good one.
     
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    Any updates @dzséti ? Are you still unlocked, any more Os for you?
     
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    Please see my answer to @Elfman
     
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    I got it so wrong. You @Elfman got it so right :cool:

    Over Christmas I've been having orgasms every 2 to 8 days, and have been trusted to stay abstinent without a cage in the between times. Yes, I did behave. Somehow I just feel I can't betray his trust

    2 days ago was my last orgasm. It was heavenly. He rarely does so, but he sucked me off and I emptied what seemed like buckets of cum. Then he took my ass for himself. It was wonderful :p:cool::D

    But today, New Year's Eve, all is changing

    I was told to put the cage back on. I confess that I found the whole idea so exciting after many weeks rest from it. I was also longing to be secure and safe from myself

    I was so excited that I got an erection while putting the cage on. I had to be very patient and apply gentle pressure as the erection subsided. Took some pics to show off my struggle

    My penis is once more small and pathetic

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    Ah, I wonder if this next lock-up will be a much longer one?
     
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    Unfortunately I can't see why this shouldn't apply to gay couples to :eek:

    Fundamentally he gets most of his fun from my ass, then to some extent from my mouth. Playing with my cock is only about being nice to me :cool:

    He is pure top, I am pure bottom (though I have been known to switch, but he doesn't want me to)

    He plays with my cock, because he enjoys it when I orgasm ... because he loves me. But equally he might start to understand better that I was the one that wanted denial and he can also love me by denying me :D:love:

    If it gets to that later, then there will be no reason at all to remove the cage. He has full and unrestricted access to my ass, which is where he generally leaves his load :)

    My penis is surplus to his requirements. May it remain small and pathetic :mad::confused:
     
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    Yup, that's what I figured too. Looks like you may be destined to join Tm Allen in the PC club (Permanent Chastity).
     
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    Frightening thought but all will happen as it has to :cool:
     
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    Yes indeed, and in the meantime, just enjoy the ride. But be warned, if he starts showing an interest in the Badass Workroom BA-02 cage, then you know you're in trouble !!! Look at those 3 little C-clips in the picture below.
     

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    #96 dzséti, Dec 31, 2022
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    It's as if you're willing me into permanent chastity

    Maybe this is what I need?

    My cock would never see full length as in the picture above. Am I ready for this?
     
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    It's not for everyone, that's for sure, but it is erotic to think about, isn't it? I think it would be wild to get the BA-02 cage with the C-clips and then just keep the clips in a drawer. That way, you know they're there and at any moment he could decide to use them and you'd never know if/when that was coming. He could tease you with them but taking them out of the drawer once in a while and suggest that now might be the time.
     
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    You know what erotic fear is about :cool:
     
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    And wrong again here. Was allowed 2 full orgasms yesterday, which were wonderful. During the first he was milking me with his first :D:cool:

    Can't be much cum left inside me :p Cage back on immediately this time... just don't know for how long
     
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    As long as you're enjoying the ride, keep doing what you're doing.
     
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