Family life with children & 24/7 chastity

this is one of the very issues that is stopping me from raising the topic with my wife.... that and the fact that we only have one bathroom in the house and kids with no patience or forward planning!!

 

Just let them know you are locked

I have two boys and my chastity life start with my 2nd kid as my queen is impregnated. We share the same bathroom but 2 toilets, so not much issue on this end.

Last year when we are having a vacation in Japan, me and my boys going to public onsen for a few dips, my elder boy noticed the lock and I just honestly tell him mom lock me up to prevent me to do bad things with other woman, since then he ask nothing about the

 

We have three kids. We have two bathrooms with working locks. I just have to prepare myself with clothes when I go to take a shower so I can be dressed leaving the bathroom.

It really hasn't been that big of a deal. I'm always at least wearing underwear around them.

My middle one has smacked his head on my device running to give me a hug, but he has no clue why. Lol. Just rubs his head and gives me a funny look.

 

Being an adult, I am perfectly capable of preventing my child from seeing me naked.

Actually, I am fairly proficient at deciding who, when, and where anyone sees me naked and hasn’t been an issue once since the high school showers.

Step one. Before getting naked look to see if anyone could see or barge in on you unannounced.

Step two. Prevent that from happening.

There, you’re all set.

 

I mean unless you are constantly naked around the kids.... I don’t see why this would be an issue, lol.

At most you need to be locked once a day or have quick check that you a locked as some type of routine. A quick feel down there is all it takes here.

Now if you are speaking of living some type of FLR where you are your wife 24/7 sub... you probably need to explain to your kids that “Mommy is the boss here” at the bare minimum... but if you are truly living the lifestyle and it is unavoidable to your kids... just let them know.

There is a great podcast called monkey in a cage where they invited the chastity creators from Mature Metal to come on the podcast. Mature Metal is a family owned operation and everyone in the family knows about it... it is nothing to be ashamed of... I would just make sure you keep your alias on this site unknown to who you are just in case you posted something that could make you lose your job.

But as far as people knowing you have a chastity device on.... who cares? You might even make a couple wives in the area jealous of your wife and you will get a couple awkward smiles from people that are jealous or amused by your situation.

 

The kids are now raised and gone, but there were several. The issue of chastity is largely a non-issue, though the freedom accorded your home once the kids move on is considerable: for the first time you can actually wonder the house naked.

With kids home, the biggest issue might be discipline; if your wife disciplines you, then you may need to focus on doing that quietly, or at times when the kids are at school (if that happens any more, in a time of Covid).

My wife stays up late, and sleeps late. I'm gone a lot working abroad, but when home, I'm home, so no leaving during the day for work. One of the first days I was home, with my wife sleeping late, and my last boy just having gone off to college, I celebrated the freedom by wearing a cage and nothing else, and scrubbing the kitchen floor on my hands and needs. The second day, my wife (who isn't a big fan of the cage, but doesn't care if it's worn) woke to find me doing dishes, sans clothes and only the cage. It made her laugh.

The difference is that with kids, the bedroom door stayed closed, and if not wearing clothes, locked.

 

Wing seen naked isn’t the problem for us. My issue is that our children are 3 1/2 and 15 months old. Kids as they are have an uncanny knack for running straight into my private area at full sprint from across the room with little to know warning! Once my daughter asked “what is that?” I told her it was a belt buckle. I don’t wear it as much now and it’s been months. Kids...

 

Same...

 

Yeah that 2-6 age range is or can be a challenge depending on your living arrangement and the dynamics you have with your wife around the whole chastity concept. It can be done, just need to plan ahead and try to predict the unexpected's before they happen. They type of device being worn can also help or not help the situation as well. I was and am able to hide my Bijou with just a hand if the random unexpected happens .. so far no issues.

 

The occasional head crash or hop on pop moments do happen. Surprisingly I think we are hard wired to protect that area, at least I am, very quick to turn to the side or pull away from immediate threats

 

Lol yes I agree that we are hardwired to protect that area. But.....then comes th inadvertent back hand to the face of said projectile (child). lol then the arduous task of explaining that you were not trying to smack them in the face. It’s such a delicate dance.

 

Very tough, and I'm glad we didn't have to face that issue. Our kids were out of the house and grown before I was locked up.

 

open and honest

 

myself my child have grow and move out but its the great grand children i do need to watch out for they at that age of toilet training no patents

 

My wife and I have a more than average amount of kids, but it hasn't been a problem. Mom is the boss of the house, but dad is the one that keeps the kids straight, and the parents room is strictly off limits and on another floor of the house.

 

Is this a joke question...is there a punchline on the way or something?

 

Ha ha love that hop on pop! funny.

Yea I think I am about the same as you, you kind of start to know in advance when something like this is gonna happen. But usually fairly easy to brush off if it happens.

Funny story for me last night as we were all on the couch watching a movie and eating popcorn ..... the kiddo looks down and says ... "Hey pop .... looks like you are sporting a little bit of a tent there!" as he is pointing at my crotch. "hmmm - Uh yea kiddo .... it does kinda look like that huh?" Kiddo - "Hey pop, do you like it when you pop a tent?" .... me - " well yea of course I do kiddo .... hey can you turn up that volume on the movie?!" .... subject never came back up the rest of the night. whew ..... lol. gotta love the re-direct and attention span of them littles.

 

You just have to be a bit careful.
If you would live with you mother in law (even not caged), would you let her see you naked?
My kids are 6 and 4 (an no mother in law).
I don't walk around naked, doors are closed when using bathroom...
It is really like when I was a teenager living with my parents. They didn't see me naked then, so it's easy to keep it like that now.
Bigger problem is preventing sudden jumps to my lap now...

 

Hi All this is my first post.
I'm glad someone posted this question as a Google search for
"FLR or Chastity with kids"
looks pretty damming on your internet Browser history.
I have a nine year old daughter and in the past we have never been bothered about being naked around the house but now my Queen has taken my key and I need to be a lot more careful but putting locks on the bedroom door is going to raise questions from my princess but is very necessary as she just marches in in the morning and gets into bed between my Queen and I and turns on the TV as she always has done since she was a toddler (it was cute back then but now not so much).
part of the fantasy for me was the idea of after work I come home cook diner do the pots and get summoned to the lounge where my Queen glass of wine in hand orders me to kneel between her legs and pleasure her etc. etc.
but the real scenario is I get home find my dinner cold in the microwave and if anyone is still up they are usually all sat in the lounge watching cartoons while my Queen is on her phone lost in facebook. After I have eaten it's usually time for me to do story time (not as lame as it sounds and is a highlight of my day) I say good night and go back to do the pots once finished i find that my Queen has gone off up to bed and is now fast asleep snoring like a good un.
Is it any wonder I ended up with a porn habit but now due to my cage even that's no fun.
Frustrated? Oh Yes.

 

I think the first step is getting a lock on your bathroom door!

 

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Ik heb twee jongens en mijn leven als kuisheid begint met mijn tweede kind als mijn koningin is geïmpregneerd. We delen dezelfde badkamer maar 2 toiletten, dus hier is niet veel probleem mee.

Vorig jaar, toen we op vakantie waren in Japan, gingen ik en mijn jongens een paar keer naar openbare onsen, mijn oudste jongen merkte het slot op en ik vertel hem gewoon eerlijk dat moeder me opsluit om te voorkomen dat ik slechte dingen doe met andere vrouwen , sindsdien vraagt hij niets over de:slot:

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Big boy

 

My boys are now 11 and 8 yrs old

No naked at home, but head butt to that area is still an issue