Driving

I've never had a Domme make it so she always drove. That said, I've always believed that whatever my partner wanted I'd follow (within respect of hard limits).

So all I can say is do as you're told. You'll probably find that as she figures out what she likes she'll adjust things. So she may drive most of the time. You may drive long trips or when she feels tired or wants to drink. It'll all work out in time. Just enjoy.

 

We do that. Sometimes she tells me to drive because she wants to relax.

 

My Wife(KH) hates driving....So, I drive...Simple...

 

My wife prefers that I drive. It's a treat when I get to just ride.

 

Oh no

 

I always drive. It’s a rule.

 

I drive most of the time. I causes her pain in her back.

 

Would love it, nice bottle of red please.

 

I drive the car, Mrs Chaste rides me! Well her strapon at any rate!

 

yes me.

 

What ever she says. If she want to relax than I drive. It is common that when I am driving she likes to stimulate me so I get hard and uncomfortable in my cage. It’s one of her ways of showing that she’s still in control.

 

I usually drive, but i love it when She drives. It feels right because She drives everything in the marriage.

 

In a vanilla relationship, she liked to drive because I refused to break enough traffic laws.

 

I want my wife to drive. Shows everyone who is in charge!

 

I drive all the time. I only let hubby drive if I am super tired. He also knows to shut up about my driving unless he wants to walk.

 

In my case SHE drives most of the time...She likes it that way and has more cars than I do. I drive whenever she asks.
When I drive I have to open the doors for her like a chauffeur. SHE has also taught me to ride a horse...and this is a very intense apres-rude activity.

 

I drive she wants me to so she can be driven around

 

Here I have to drive. But there is a series of rules... I have to open the doors for her every time, I have to hold her purse all the time, if she is wearing heels I have to remove them every time, when she comes out I have to put then back on her feet, when we are out is better I pay for everything (we have our bank account together, but as a submissive husband she does not have to do those boring things like get the credit card, go to the line e etc. She tells me with a bank account and credit card only), The music playing on the radio can only be the approved one. So I have the playlist have to run. If parking is not close to the store I have to pick the car and bring to her and when I arrive I have to get out and walk her to the car and open the door... and never forget the umbrella no matter if is hot or raining. In the beginning, I was a little ashamed to do in front of her friends or family... But after a while, I saw they asked her where she found an extremely devoted man and how she did not drown me on her jealousy... She used to have an extreme case of jealousy, but after chastity it all gone... She is cured! lol

 

Our wives are similar. I too do nearly everything you do when we go out, sans the umbrella. It's a nice touch. When she's wearing expensive shoes and there are rain puddles, I carry her across. She too used to be extremely jealous and insecure which I thought weird as she's a beautiful woman (when your gal friends tell you your wife is way too hot for you, you know you have a looker).

While the jealousy hasn't completely dissapeared, the combo of flr and chastity cage have really upped her confidence dramatically. She no longer worries when I'm out by myself though I'm always caged anyway. It was an unintended consequence of this stuff but it's great. I don't get pounded on and she's not all stressed out.

The other unintended consequence is that there is something extremely erotic about treating a woman in this rather old fashioned way. I don't know if it tickles the submission bone but it is noticeable. Weirdly, it transfers to when I do gentelmanly things for complete strangers such as hold doors etc. It's not that I'm at all attracted to them but it gives me a jolt and makes me think of my wife.

 

We will both drive but she prefers to drive most times but it is not out of showing dominance. She gets motion sick easily and it is better for her when she drives.

I do feel slightly emasculates when she says she will drive and sometimes will say something like “that’s right sissy, I drive” I know she is only joking when she does it but there must be something in there that makes her say that. Maybe

 

On my side I drive as she loves being carried without effort. Sometime she drive herself but it's rare and I have to give the car to her and no complaining -witch I didn't. Of course I follow her rules, directions and request in all cases.

I first open the door for her before and after and let her in, it is now so implemented that I even do not think that is submissive. Just the way to do it.

 

My job requites me to be on the road 8-12 hours depending on day/weather/demand. I have a commercial drivers license and I usually drive when we are together.

If I complain that I am sick of driving she will gladly take a turn in the drivers seat. But ahe prefers that I sit in the back seat. Most recently she had a friend over and took the keys from my hand as we were walking out the door. Her friend was a little suprised to see me offer up the front passenger seat. But I knew instinctively she wanted her friend up front to hang and chat like girls do!