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    Hey!

    My husband and I are both new too male chastity and really just here for research and too meet like minded people who share the interests and kinks.
    He is the one who brought it up and has tried to cage himself but never really someone too explore with till now and me.
    We are both excited about our new form of communication and openness we have with each other.
     
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    Welcome
     
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    Hello Miss!

    Welcome to the site and hope you find what your looking for! Lots of great people to talk to and share advice and knowledge. Best of luck!

    Cheers!
    ~ Ransom
     
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    Welcome,i hope that all you hope to achieve with you and your partner will come true.
    ;):lock::+1:
     
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    Welcome! Be careful what he wishes for…. Could be life changing, enjoy! Have fun!
     
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    Welcome! I hope you enjoy researching here. You being his Dominate is a wonderful start to male chastity.
     
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    sissy jennifer 1 Locked up looking for a new Mistress sadly.

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    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion. I hope everything you need here.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and entertaining too.
     
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    Welcome!

    Feel free to ask us any questions you might have. As you may have already seen, there is a wealth of chastity related information already on the various forums as you might expect. But there is also a lot of info about "related kinks" (cuckold, piercing, cross-dressing, bondage, Femal Led Relationships, etc.) which many of us like to include with our chastity lifestyle. What's important for those new to the forum to realize is we're not ALL into every one of the kinks. In fact, there are many here who are just here for the chastity related content.

    What I'm saying is view the content here on Chastity Mansion as a "buffet of chastity related kinks". Take what you want, ignore what you don't have an interest in.

    Again, welcome to Chastity Mansion!

    ~subrick
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Kylara Happy feminized sub owned by Mistress PHEBUSA

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    Welcome to the mansion, this is the good place.

    My mistress is time to time online (PHEBUSA) feel free to chat her even if she prefer to chat on facebook.
    and tell us a little on what you do, like and the way you live your domination life.

    As it is mostly men who buy the cage at first you may have thousand of questions and all to win to engage into this lifestyle.
     
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    Just have fun with him. If you are both having a good time with it, you are doing it right.
     
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    Hi @SwitchGinia and welcome to the Mansion... there's lots of stuff here and plenty of well-meaning folk to guide you and hubby on your way.
    As with all forums you have to make up your mind on what to believe...but in general its pretty transparent ☺
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Thank you!!

    I am figuring out how to live my domination life, I have been very vanilla in the past and never had anyone with such fantasies and kinks so I am finding my way in this role. The thought of having this control over my mans penis is a huge turn on for me and the fact that he wants to share in his pleasure instead of hide it away from me is amazing. We feel like we are dating again and sharing all these new experiences. His cages haven’t came yet but we have been talking about time frames and what I am going to do while he is caged and where are acceptable places for him to be caged. He is very turned by the fact that I am researching and gathering my own knowledge.

    How do most start being dominating?
     
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    You have the right mindset. Amazing opportunities are open to a woman who is willing. You have had fun, but wait till he is caged for a couple of weeks. Be strong. He does not want you to give in. He may not realize that, but he likely wants your strength.

    Your first assignment is to determine if he is happy just having fun, or is he showing signs of submission? Both are great, but present different paths for you to explore.

    Welcome and have fun!
     
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    Hi thank you!
     
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    Great response!
     
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    This can be as vanilla or as domme as you like. I would start with www.evolvingyourman.com there is a lot of great articles about how, why, and what you (yes and him) get from this exchange. Communication is key, but it sounds like you've got that covered.
     
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    Hi if you’d like a very open and honest conversation then give me a call guys and welcome
     
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    Hello,

    Im intrigued by a BDSM party! Tell me more about these!
     
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    So glad you're both here! Welcome. I don't know how I can help but please let me know. Feel free to reach out with anything---questions generally, or even just directions for more resources.

    Hope being here helps make your life better, more exciting, and more fun.
     
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    Ohh, great. Well there's a lot that can be going on there. It depends on who's around and what's going on. Sometimes it's a thing held at a club. These can be like swingers clubs with a BDSM night; I've never been to these, but people give positive reports.

    My favorite tend to be the house parties with a specific, femdom-exclusive focus. That does a better job for me having everyone in the same mindset/headspace, and it's nice to have a smaller more closely knit group.

    Generally there's a dress code for the boys and the ladies, something to set and project a power dynamic. There's some kind of playtime, maybe whenever you get there or it might be a designated start time. People will get to choose to engage in their own scenes. Usually there's a way to have a private or semi private experience; other people will set it up so that they can have an audience. Sometimes there's a table with food, and a place just for lounging and socializing. The socializing is good. Often there's a "wristband" system, like wearing a wristband means you're open to being picked up and played with. Every one of these I've been to only the ladies are allowed to initiate picking or playing with a boy, so the guys wear the wristbands.

    You can come in street clothes, and if it's at someone's house they probably request that you do, and then get dressed when you arrive.

    What else can I tell you?
     
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    If I can please make a recommendation for a short impeccable book, "Uniquely Rika", at least as far as I know, I've never seen anything that better describes how to live a real, actual practical, workable FLR. She makes it clear how to make this all benefit you instead of demanding you to do more work to make a go of it.

    Please let me know if you're intrigued and I'm happy to get a digital copy to you.
     
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