So on the weekend, Mrs Sen was recovering from a minor procedure and she wasn't wanting stimulation herself, but she did instruct me to remove my cage so that she could have some fun with my penis. After she was done (and well before I was near orgasm) we were cuddling when she said "you can have your fantasy if you want and mess over my body". I thought about it for a minute, it was about a week since my last orgasm and I was just getting into that horny headspace, so I declined the offer. If she had worded it as an instruction (do this) rather than an offer, I ofcourse would have obeyed, but it wasn't. What experiences do others have, declining a release to stay in the right headspace?