Discreet Expression of Chastity Lifestyle

My wife wears my key, but other than that no

 

Not exactly discreet

 

@DprBoy4Dominant : I am almost positive that you can get "Pandora" charms that are "Lock and Key" designs... or specific things like "Roosters" or other fun play-on-words that have meaning to both of you.

You could also put other things on the bracelet/anklet as well that have significance to either of you.

 

Woot was recently selling some lock earings, and some key earings. Buy a set of each, then mix and match.

 

I have a T-shirt with that design. It's not discrete. We do have other stuff that is. Lady C has a chain with what looks like two pearls in it, except they're egg shaped and in a cage with a key thing going on. I have an Owned Submissive BDSM emblem. Most vanilla people don't know what it is.

These were from Etsy.

The other thing you can get is a key and lock ring set. Amazon has lots of them https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0BQMZ4...olid=27365IEMHT598&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

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Madam and I have several different shirts like that and there far from descreet!
but those rings in the link you posted are just perfect!

 

happy to help

 

I have a simple padlock image with the word "Locked" underneath it all on a plain black background as my PC wallpaper.

If anyone comments, I just say I mixed up the lock screen image with the wallpaper screen image, and as the screen is otherwise blank I've left it like that as it makes anyone else assume that the screen is locked when it's not.
Of course, my wife knows exactly what it means.

 

I have a Kink3d pin that I'll put on my gym bag. It's a front view on a Cobra cage, so it doesn't mean anything to anyone unless they're familiar with that cage.

https://kink3d.com/collections/merch/products/covert-cobra-pin

 

My wife wears her key on a necklace, it has a portion that unscrews revealing the real key portion. I used to make pendants combining old keys with chastity key, but the steel would eventually be less shiny and not pleasing to the eye. This one is custom made silver jewelry which looks so much nicer. People in the know would understand if they saw it, others wouldn’t. Although it is tucked into her shirt often.

She has an anklet with a key and heart on it, not as obvious as the necklace, but again, anyone in the know would understand.

I wear a couple trinkets on my necklace/collar. The necklace is locked on with a heart shaped lock pendant. On keyhole side it says locked for her. I also have a small tag that says owned. I think I have the tiny key to it somewhere in the bathroom, not sure, I am not planning on taking it off.

Since my necklace is more of a collar and designed not to be able to remove, it is a bit more obvious than my wife’s as it sits higher due to the shorter length. So it is exposed a bit more than hers, no one has asked about it. I recently got an anklet that looks like handcuffs clasped together. I imagine I will get more stares about the anklet than what’s on it.

 

I recently got these shirts for us on etsy. We have each worn them around the house, and I've worn mine (the lock one) out a couple of times. I'm hoping we'll wear them together on a date sometime soon!

 

I got this a few months ago, plan on wearing in the summer

 

It needs to be something benign, but when you know - you know. Like the upside down pineapple for swingers.

 

I like the looks of this one .... kind of subtle.

 

Another thought that I've had is a pin/sticker/shirt of the Greek goddess Artemis. Pretty sure she was the goddess of chastity.

 

i wear a necklace with an ownership tag like described above and have several chastity- and Femdom-related t-shirts. Most of those are in my photos. i also wear a silver bracelet with a hidden screw connection that passes but is recognizable by folks familiar with our dynamic.

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I have the locked rooster T-shirt. My Wife has a T-shirt that says 'bull rider' and another that says 'My husband likes to watch'. All will be worn this weekend...

No, not subtle at all but we will be at an event, so everyone will know and no one will care!

 

I like that. Kinda wish I would have noticed that when I made a recent purchase of number tags and key sleeve.

 

Have a key ring each mine says Sub hers obviously Mistress
She has a Pandora charm of a padlock and key

 

My Mistress wears a custom heart shape key necklace that goes to my lock. I had it made for her as a gift and she wears it out every day. Only one person asked about it and my Mistress just replied with a smile that she owns me and it’s the key to my heart.

I have a couple shirts I got from Etsy. One just says “locked” across the chest. The other has the word “vanilla” crossed out on it. I wonder if other subs would even recognize what either mean.

My mistress also has the exact key to my lock tattooed on her inner arm with “mistress” written in Korean. I have a lock tattoo with the Korean words “owned” on it, but it’s always covered as it’s very close to my caged package.

 

My Wife wears Her key every day and occasionally a t-shirt that says “I my husband locked”
So it’s not that discreet really

 

No, she was the goddess of romantic attraction and beauty

As far as I know, there was no Greek Goddess of chastity. Closest thing would be Hera who was the goddess of marriage which is obviously very different

 

Apparently this necklace is supposed to represent the attached graphic collar symbol.

 

I have one of these around my neck