My balls ached. My stomach quivered. I needed to come, now. I stroked the tender flesh that squeezed through the bars. I jiggled my balls; that felt good. But I wasn't there. Relief was just out of reach. My awareness shifted. I was lying in bed, my wife sleeping beside me. My hand was on my cage, my cock swelling within. Milky moisture oozed from the tip. I scooped it up with my fingertip and put it to my lips. That was as close as I was to get to an orgasm.
I’ve never had a wet dream, I’ve had erotic dreams but never wet ones, I just don’t think I can, My madam can orgasm in her sleep though.
Sorry but you don't know what desperation is. It's not a game or a fab, desperation is when you think the rest of the world is against you. It's when you think why am I here, what's the point of carrying on with you life, That's what's DESPERATION is.
So many guys find chastity and focus on the feeling of being locked but can't hold out. For me, the desperation is THE ENTIRE POINT. It's delicious. Live deliciously.
When I get to that stage I also know that being released would spoil the whole effect for ages. Does anyone else think about sending a message to their keyholder saying that they might ask to be unlocked but if they do, please be firm and refuse. Actually I think I'm safe now. I think she understands that release would leave me grumpy and useless for anything up to a week and there is really no reason why I should not stay locked up. I think she would actually enjoy refusing!
So true. All the replies above. The heightened arousal from chastity and orgasm denial is exquisite. It's also frustrating beyond belief. And the frustration itself is exciting. It is singularly the best part of chastity. I guess it's called a "love hate relationship". I can't figure out whether I like being locked or not. I thought I loved it. Till about 2 days ago when I figured out, I need to fuck.
Kinda in the same boat. She loves sex with me, but she has realized that if I orgasm, even with my high testosterone levels...I am not the same as I am when I've been locked up, for about a week or so after orgasming. The part I'm having trouble with is that she's not used to me being "needy" as she calls it, which more my constant desire to be in physical contact with her all the time. Our sex life hasn't slowed down as we've got older thankfully, but I've never been a cuddler, or into physical touch much. Wham. Bam. Thank you ma'am type things basically. But since we've gone down this road, I'll get into bed and just want to cuddle her, constanrly want to rub on her etc, and she doesn't get it. She goes "isn't this like torturing yourself?" Yes..it really is, but caressing you is like a weird release that makes me feel good..then she rolled over and went to bed...I tell you if I could get this thing off and rub one out I'd be beating it like it owes me money right now, I don't have access to, or know where the keys are at all, and I am about to f'ing explode over here.