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    Me and my mistress are setting up some unique daily tasks for me... But we can only think of the basic ones
    Ie serving of meals, cleaning of the house, and days were she isn't working I put our son to sleep..

    What are some unique daily tasks that others have
     
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    Very obvious but you should be providing lip-service at least once a day - and whenever your KH requires it. More general 'body worship' / massage. You could provide her with pedicures and manicures - including learning how to do it properly if necessary and required.
    Keeping a daily diary for Her with details of what you have done, not done, how you are feeling emotionally: to be read to Her on a Friday or Saturday and then discussed. Can be used as the basis for discipline / punishment.
    Repeating your Contract or Pledge to her at least once a week.
    Shoe cleaning at hand-washig of lingerie.
     
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    On days that I don't work, we both shower together. When we do, I am to wash her completely and thoroughly. I start with a soft, soap filled scrunchie and begin by washing her neck, upper body area. I then move to her outstretched arms. Mid section is next. We have a bench seat in the shower and she places her foot on the bench so that I can thoroughly wash her legs and feet. When I do her thighs, I gently wash the outer area of her vagina. I then do the other leg. She proceeds to rinse off and I then wash her hair.

    This is something that we have done over the years on a very infrequent basis. Since we entered into a FLR with chastity, it is done every time we shower together, no exceptions.
     
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    When she is in the shower, warm her towels in the dryer. Open and close all doors for her, including when she gets in and out of the car.
     
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    well I dose everthing in the house and thats cleaning and cooking and washing all the things and doing the garden and anything in the house like windows and thingys. I now order the shopping as well and do some shopping in the village and other things that Mistress tell me to do. I be glad when the lockdown stops cos i work better I think when I am not watch.
     
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    Jemima, do you shop dressed as a woman too?
     
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    well I been doing that for a long time. I look a bit silly dress as a man now.
     
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    Thank you Jemima, I didn't want you to think I was being rude.
     
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    Interesting choices of words ...daily ,,, why just daily ?
    and tasks... do you find doing things for your mistress a task?

    As advice I would suggest that you canoffer to do practically anything she cannot only do for herself. but if you really want to impress... learn to predict her needs... and which needs she only wants filling when she decides. Predicting needs even innocently can potentially be construed as topping from the bottom.

    a potential minefield.
    ie. i have run you a (not requested) bath.
    aiming to please or telling her to get in the bath or even that she needs a bath.. so be careful
     
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    On weekdays, i send short notes to my Keyholder Wife around 9am, noon and 3pm. These are just short notes thanking Her for taking control of my climaxes, reflecting on a hot time we've had, etc.

    This helps me stay focused on being submissive when we're apart at work (or working in different rooms of the house these days).

    asa
     
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    With the quarantine, we are kind of stuck in terms of routine, and keep in daily contact online. Normally we see each other 1-4 times a week, depending on life getting in the way.

    Our tasks are service based. Initially we started out with contrived tasks, like making a certain tea a certain way and serving it. That never felt right. Now they are all based on actual want and need. I give a lot of massages and foot rubs. My job is to maintain her car, and keep it clean. Hopefully once this all dies down and ends, I'll be able to get back to doing that. Her feeling is that she should use her car, but the appearance and cleanliness of the car is a reflection on her, which I have to ensure is a positive. These are the sorts of things we do now. Actual need things, rather than made up rituals for effect. They feel true, and I feel needed, and she feels served by me.
     
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    always do!
     
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    Any thing you can do that makes her life easier. Clean everything without being asked, wash her car and make sure its full of fuel, have her coffee ready when she wakes up, make her breakfast. Make the bed. Listen to what she says. Make mental notes of what she might need. Be helpfull and not a burden.
     
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    I'm a bit like @jemima, as i do a bit of everything around the house. She does some chores, as see thinks I'm not good at them, but most are mine. She's not really into the chastity thing, but is a natural Domme. Sometimes, i get a good chewing out, just cause she feels like it. I've learned to stand there, take it, and apologize for any mistakes. Guess, I'm a bit pussy-whipped, but that is my personality. For me that's a big part of our routine.
     
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