Cock banding with wife

My wife and I have always been out there trying a lot of things. About a month ago she wanted to try cock banding.

We brough an Elastrator with the green bands. We started slowly with 10 to 15 mins of banding with 1 band.

It really didn't give much numbness. We then started increasing and stopped when we did 1hr sessions. Last sessions were 3 60 mins sessions with 3 bands on at a time which we did 3 times over 2 days. I took plenty of asprin to thin the blood.

Well my wife got what she wanted.

I get hard as a rock but no matter how much we fuck I cannot cum when I am fucking her. This is good for her and I knew this would happen I am just wondering how long it will last.

My cock has been numb for last two weeks and when we fuck I cant even feel when I am inside her. The only way I know we are fucking is a can see my wife riding me. If I shut my eyes I dont know if she has stopped or is still moving.

I can still cum by maserbating but it takes at least 45 to 60 mins and doesn't always work. When it does work I cum is a really weird sensation in that cum starts flying everywhere for about 10 to 15 secs. During this period I cant feel myself cumming i just see cum flying everywhere and I just need to keep masterbating very hard. Eventually after 10 to 15 seconds of cum flying everywhere I feel a very very small orgasme.

My orgamase is only about 5 per cent of what it use to be

What I want to ask is how long will the numbness in my cock last and how long before I will start feeling fucking my wife

Thanks for everyone advice

Cheers

 

I suppose only time will tell. Not worried if its 4 to 5 weeks just hoping it's not permanent

 

If its permanent then I do regret doing it. If its 4 to 5 weeks I can live with that.

 

Well an update. Still cannot feel any pleasure which is turning Karen on so much. We are now having more sex that we have ever had as I dont cum and I am always hard and not having any feelings in my cock is really turning Karen on.

Karen tells me is a combination on me being there at her beg and call and the fact that she is getting all this pleasure and I am getting nothing has dramatically increased her sex drive. A good example is oral. We have always enjoyed oral but Karen was never a fan of the 69 position

Now she loves it. When I ask why she says its extra horny for her know that while I am giving her oral I cannot feel her giving me oral. So now we are doing 69 all the time.

One final change Karen has made is that I am no longer allowed to masterbate. Even though it was difficult and could take up to an hr it was my only release but Karen says she wants me at her beck and call and she doesn't want me having any pleasure.

For me it's actually a strange experience in that I am enjoying being used and being at Karen beck and call. Always being extremely horny is making me a better husband and I am looking forward to making Karen happy and not only serving her in the bedroom but also looking after her other needs

I know this sounds strange but it's how I feel

 

Thanks for your reply. We have actually stopped the banding a few weeks ago as want to see how long this numbness and inability to cum lasts.

From what I have been reading it's any where from a mth to upto 6 mths. In 1 or 2 instances it was permanent. While we dont want a permanent situation of course Karen will enjoy the period where I cant cum.

To be honest she went the 1st 5 or 6 years of our marriage without really cumming but she never stopped which I was very grateful for.

So if she can get pleasure in Karen cumming once or twice a day without me cumming then I really should complain about it.

I am getting pleasure in the fact that Karen is really enjoying sex and she knows I am doing it all for her and not for my pleasure

If we go 6 mths or more I think I can accept that as long as it returns somewhere along the line

We have agreed if it is long term then we wont band again due to risk of permanent damage however if feelings come back in a few weeks we will band a little more

For me it's all about pressuring Karen. She pleasured me for 5 or 6 years the least I can do is return the pleasure

 

Hi All

This is Karen John's wife.

As John as explained we have stopped the banding as I have achieved what I wanted.

John's devotsion to me is second to none. We think this wont be a permanent thing but a temporary situation of a mth to 6 mths.

We did a lot of research before hand. John took a lot of aspirin to help again blood clots.

So now we are at a spot where John receives no pleasure so all his focus is on me.

My orgamase are so much more intense as I know John is only going it for my pleasure and the fact that I know John is receiving zero pleasure makes it even better.

A lot of people may think I am selfish but John wants this as much as I do and as John said we are having sex so much now and I indent to keep increasing this

John will be rewarded for this after he gets feeling back ( hopefully around the 6 mth mark)

I will make John cum as much as he wants as a thank you for his sacrifice

Keep the comments coming

Love to all

Karen

 

Update

It's now been 13 weeks since we stopped our banding. We have a feeling we may have gone to far. The last 5 sessions of our banding was 13 weeks ago and we went over 5 days with 3 sessions of 90 mins each session so 4.5 hrs a day of banding.

Karen was applying numbing cream to the base of my cock so I could get 90 mins each session as it was very painful. She also increased number of bands to 3 per session.

Its now been 13 weeks and I still feel absolutely nothing and my cock is still completely numb.

I cant feel Karen giving me a blow job and I dont feel when I enter her for sex. I dont even feel us having sex at all. If I didnt see Karen moving up and down I wouldn't even know we were having sex. The cock is that numb that there is zero feeling in it.

We are worried we have done to far and that the numbness in my cock is now permanent

Does anyone have any experience in the time it takes for nerves to heal

Have we done to far and will I be permanently numb

Is there anything I can do to encourage the dorsal nerve to grow back

Sorry for all the questions but worried I am never be able to cum again

Thank you

 

Hi there. Yes I can feel my balls and nipples but not enough to have an orgasm. I lost that ability completely now. I was able to just cum by maserbating but after the real long banding sessions I have no feelings but a numb cock and cannot cum at all.


Karen and I were inexperienced and should have done more research but Unfortunately cannot go back now. We just hope I get some feeling back to my cock.

I tried that kink doctor link but no one in Australia

 

Hi yes tried prostate milking. Yes cums does come out but there is no feeling. If I was to close my eyes I wouldn't know any has come out. So Unfortunately no pleasure there. The only small pleasure I can feel is Karen suxing my balls but that is very minimal.

I am just happy I can still make Karen cum. I get hard as a rock and because I cant feel anything we can fuck for as long as Karen needs to get off. It's a strange thing but we are having more sex than we ever have had in our lives and Karen is cumming a min 5 to 7 times a week and most weeks it's a lot more.

While I miss feeling the pleasure of sex I enjoy knowing Karen is getting so much pleasure. To be honest in the 1st 4 or 5 years Karen never was able to cum but still made sure I was happy so in a way it's my turn to ensure she gets it when ever she needs it.

The fact that I dont feel anything is not so important

 

Yes so do I. I have do admit I am loving Karen enjoying herself so much. I think that deep down she is enjoying me having no feelings as she knows it all about her.