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Circulation

Discussion in 'The Tower' started by Sarah8, May 11, 2017.

  1. Hi,

    I've been playing with my new toy to make sure it fits snugly and I've noticed that when he tries to swell not much happens. I think it's great lol. The cage does point outwards and is slightly pushed out from his body but the ring doesn't appear to slide down so it looks good. However when he has been aroused for a while his balls begin to get darker in color I think they even get alittle bigger. It's close to the color of a really hard cock when you squeeze the base of it. So it appears that his circulation is being restricted by his erection.

    Does this mean that the base ring is to tight and we should try one that fits better while he's erect or that the ring is to big and allowing him to swell up to much?

    Thanks for the tips
     
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  2. Miss Sarah, I've noticed this on myself as well. From what I've heard here, if you can fit a finger inside the base ring while it's on it should be okay. I plan to keep an eye on this thread, though, just in case.
     
  3. If anything gets cold remove immediately. Color changes are normal as long as it's not an unhealthy blue.
     
  4. Isn't that typically the coldest part of your body?
     
  5. Temperature will fluctuate, in fact that is its job, but it shouldn't be cold unless you just got out of a cold pool
     
  6. Yep, it happens so tell him not to get hard. That is against the rules. :) The finger rule is good because obviously if you can fit a fingertip under the ring, it is not tight enough to cut of circulation. It does get uncomfortable when you try to get erect. That is the whole idea.
     
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    If the circulation is cut off the male bits will eventually go blackish and drop off. Seriously though, the finger test is sound. Don't be mislead by his complaining when he tries to fight his cage with an erection. If the cage is reasonably comfortable when he is flaccid, it's fine.
     
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  8. In the beginning I think it's good to be cautious. He is doing things to his boys that aren't natural. I had a similar worry when getting used to the new cage. The advice about him not trying to get hard is also sound advice. I know it seems counterproductive but it really does make you fill with blood down there and that will throw off how much room you thought you had there!

    Just use best judgement I guess:)
     
  9. You guys, I'm pretty sure the question was about colour change during attempted erection. No need to warn about bits falling off ;)
    Yes it will cut off circ during these times but will be fine afterwards if the fit is ok for flaccid times.
     
  10. Thanks for the tips! The verdict is that it fits great in the day time at least. I spent most of the afternoon fondling his cage and never found cold balls. Unfortunately he woke me up in the middle of the night and that was o longer the case. He literally had blue balls, they were cool to the touch, and really swollen. After removing the cage we couldn't get the ring off right away because they wouldn't fit though one at a time. I was a little freaked out but after a while they shrank back down to normal size and dispite the expected soreness he was fine.

    Its a good thing he isn't a very heavy sleeper though or I may have had to take up a castration fantasy. Seriously though that scared me for a while. He's taking a few days off and we'll use the bigger ring at night if not all the time.
     
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    Isn't that what I said ??????
     
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  12. Yep. I was more talking to Nic. But as you'll note I also said there's probably no reason to warn about necrotizing dicks. No one likes to think about that...I hope.
     
  13. Had the problem of turning darker, but not since I went to a larger ring. Except when I wear a large butt plug at the same time. Then things will slowly darken, but not as fast as when I was on the smaller ring.
     
  14. When we first started, the tube portion of my cage was too loose and I would start to get erect pretty often, causing pain in the balls. Since getting a shorter cage (which I naturally objected to, of course) I am quickly prevented from getting very erect and now my tightness and blue ball problem has gone away. It hurt my male pride to need a smaller cage, but since adjusting my thinking about my clitty and no longer having PIV sex, my size is no longer important to me.
     
  15. Honestly, it shouldn't matter as far as size is concerned. If its too tight, he has no say. You determine what is and isn't too tight.
     
  16. Sounds like the start of a great romantic evening. "Honey could you force your huge man meat into this little cage? I know it doesn't look like it will fit but once we close the lock it won't matter." Sounds ligit
     
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  17. Lol I'd hardly call my boyfriends huge.
     
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  18. Lol well I call mine's huge but it's mostly for his ego. Telling him it's a pleasant and comfortable size or that it's very respectable just doesn't have the same ring to it :p
     
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  19. Try 'it's cute'. Honestly, one of my favorite things about a smaller cage is convenience. For example, with my old one I had to be careful about sitting down. Several times when I absentmindedly just plopped into a hard chair I nearly crushed my balls and when there were other people in the room had to hide my pain. With the smaller cage that never happens.
     
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