Chastity Mansion Traffic

We have better, more enriching things to do?

 

How does this compare to the trends of 2022?

 

Numbers kill off one's sexual arousal?

 

Locktober over?

 

It's not like people dont have families, careers and the holidays to deal with. Besides how much can you discuss your junk in being in a cage or kinks repeatedly before it gets dull.

 

I’ve been on here for more than a few years, but I go in cycles. I’ll be very active and responding, participating, posting, etc for a month or so and then I may be away for the same time.

Obviously if I find interesting or engaging stuff, or see new folks struggling and I might be able to help, that keeps me engaged.

The last year in my relationship has pushed me past a few previous records etc, and my wife has evolved our relationship a little so that’s had me a bit more engaged as well.

 

Do not under estimate the power of geeks. I spent some time recently discussing the diameter of padlock shackles and the size of padlock keys.

 

I mean good for you I guess lol. Wish I had time for piddly little stuff like that.

 

i noticed the site slowed down every now and then over the last few weeks. i'm not aware of any other competing sites.

 

I try to get here every few days. I don't post a lot now. I don't want to bore people or tell the same tales all the time. I read the posts that interest me and sometimes reply...

 

I may have killed it off with a controversy I was involved in but I still consider that this is a forum for people involved in male chastity. Fictional stories belong somewhere else.

 

Its half way through December, everyone is out Christmas shopping! We’re to busy taking our Queens shopping, carrying bags and wrapping what they have bought.

 

While I don't think you killed it and that's kinda bold to assume lol. I'll agree there is a lot of stuff here that's clearly fantasy. Also I'm sure I'll catch heat but don't care. The focus doesn't really seem to be males in chasity as much being a sissy or being cucked etc. Not placing blame is what it is but is off putting to someone has no interest in either.

 

Maybr the guests arent guests anymore and have an account now.
Or the market for chastity is saturated.

 

I agree with this as well… if the whole sissy thing is your thing then to each their own. That’s also why there’s the various sub forums around “chastity without feminization” and “chastity in vanilla” etc. Unfortunately some of those get invaded now and then with other things.

Also nothing wrong with the fantasy stuff, but agree you really have to sift through it -
Unfortunately any of the newbies that come here looking for honest, serious advice may get turned off by it or may think that’s what chastity is about to everyone.

Part of why I check the newbie section now and then to hopefully offer some wisdom to someone actually wanting to get into or understand how these relationships work without being bombarded by things that are mostly pure fiction.

Every time I see the typical posts “finally got my first cage, locked it on and it fit perfect… and my wife/partner took the keys and said I’ll be locked up for at least 3 months, etc” I just laugh and scroll on past…

 

Well I like detail and I actually think it's important. By swapping the padlock on one of my cages I suddenly have a cage with no play in it which wasn't the case before and could be important for my personal set up.

 

Delusions of grandeur?

Seriously, why don't we forget about it, and move on?

It is just the holiday season.

 

I have and anything I've said is another apology to anyone I've hurt. I'm going to mind my own business and respect how others contribute and what they take from this forum. I know I'm lucky to have a domme gf to bounce off of. I'm going to try harder to show my appreciation.

 

I am not suggesting that you withdraw from the conversation.

 

I won't I just fell into the trap of forgetting there are people behind the anonymous usernames. I just need to be more mindful. If you want to know how bdsm can be a bit lighter during holiday season see my blog "I like that you can't cum".

 

Maybe I'm lucky but never had an issue with the padlock came with mine. Noise was a concern but in going on three months it's made a noise maybe twice. Makes me wonder what padlocks people are using to be so noise is such an issue.

 

Don't Christmas present shopping sites have priority at this time of year?
Especially in this next week, as the panic sets in that you don't really know what she wants!

 

Talking about the traffic to the site got me thinking. There will be operational costs that are likely not trivial in operating this site. Hosting, bandwidth, considerable storage given the image gallery, database hosting.

Yet there's no advertising to offset costs, and no fees charged to the users.

So how rich is our benefactor to be able to pay for all of this?

 

She’s not rich, just savvy.

Every 6 months or so Miss Lucy holds a fundraising gala where all us chaste men, keyholders and sissies gather for a right old piss up. The entry isn’t cheap but it keeps the site alive.

You should come next time. There’s lots of fun:
Pin the cage on the penis, hook a cock, spin the wheel, sissy face painting… there’s also a bowl that you can throw your cage keys in, but I don’t know what that’s about. There’s so much. Oh and the miniature cocktail canapés are to die for!

There’s also a Miss Keyholder competition. Lucy wins every time but that’s part of the fun really.