I'm thinking of creating a chastity game for my wife/KH. She draws a colored marble out of a bag: Purple=I eat her to orgasm (obviously, that will be the predominant color) Blue=I stay locked, no orgasm for me (2nd most, and I stay locked until we play again) Red=ruined orgasm White=I get to cum (only 1 or 2 of these) Should she draw 1 marble per, day, week or month.....?
If its about chastity, make it 370 black ones and 12 of another color. She pulls one a day and she gets to decide how you get relief if you pick one of the 12. She gets what she wants when ever she wants it. New Years eve they all go back in the bag.
Hmmm... a bit of a dour comment - chastity games increase the tease and keep things fun for the people concerned - why not throw some games into the mix - keeps things interesting and certainly for the chaste guy, it’s also another form of communication about his predicament between him and his KH and that is ALWAYS a good tease and pretty much guaranteed to keep him happily frustrated and horny. And it’s great that the KH keeps his/her involvement going. Not all KH’s are like that.
What a fun idea. Why not go further with it, say add a few more colours with different outcomes. For example, green could be "Her choice" so no matter what she gets to decide there and then what you get. Or Orange could be "Dare" which means she sets you a dare which you complete for an orgasm/ruined orgasm.
Why not? Because you substitute someone making a judgment about what is best for the relationship and instead put it in the hands of random chance. That maybe makes sense if his partner basically refuses to be involved at all beyond superficially holding the key. Otherwise, it seems odd. I was asking because I was interested in knowing his motivation. I didn't say there was.
I think you could do away with the purple ones all together. If your wife wants eating then you eat her! She shouldn't need to draw a marble!
I have tried to invent some "win win games". With my particular relationship, here's what I've discovered: > "real control"- My wife tends to want to be in charge, in terms of having access when she wants it for her interest. Or forbidding access because she is in the mood to see me sexually frustrated. (Vs. random chance in a game) > "real control" If I lock myself up, and have set too challenging of a release time & date, and she can over-ride it with her code, she often enjoys seeing me in a self made predicament, and may prefer to see my frustration, vs. let me out even for her use. > If I goof up and lock myself up longer than intended, she has always seen that as funny and adapts to make the best out of it for her. Anyway, I do like the idea of games, but this seems to be what she prefers. best!
I think games just add to the fun if both are into it and enjoy it. As with all games the KH has the final rule and can overrule anything. So go for it and enjoy!!!