Chastity and Suffering ?

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    Hello everyone. I have a bruise, a purple patch on the shaft of my penis. This has been caused by a new cage which is steel and much smaller than what I've been used to before. Today I was unlocked by my KH/wife and while giving me a blowjob she noticed the bruising and said the shaft is also a little caved in from that spot. She looked concerned and i brushed it off by saying it's just some chaffing due to erections. But I know that's not the case. This was due to the constriction during an erection the cage provides and somehow my shaft got bruised. Deep down I like the suffering Im going through and seeing the result of that suffering made me somewhat happy and satisfied. But I'm also worried that is this damaging to the penis ? Will this mean my penis will shrink if the bruising continues to happen occasionally.. what are your opinions on this. Pls share.

    Also it is a pleasure to suffer in this chastity game... While our wives enjoy getting lots of regular orgasms, we men are snuggly locked away to suffer in frustration and get our throbbing cocks pressed and squeezed and squished...
     
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    Not a doctor, but doubt there is permanent damage. I suggest taking a break from the cage until things heal and to find a better fitting cage. Bruising and chafing should not happen and problems can only get worse over time if the situation is not corrected.
     
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    I'll share pics of the cage. It's very heavy and small. Prior to this I was using a 3d printed cage. It was much lighter and never had bruising. IMG_20220806_010057.jpg IMG_20220806_010141.jpg
     
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    The penis is a tough resilient bl@@dy piece of meat… you can whack it, twist it, slap it, cane it, drug it, hotwax it..put into whatever hole you can find since young including the one where the sun aint shining…it will still emerge nice and steady.
    I would worry more for the balls since your ring has the indentation that will trap some amount of scrotum skin along it and create pressure points on the same spot.
    The small gap between the ring and cage is not a worry as long as the balls are not too high and tight, compressing them between the cage and ring. The internal chords can pass through.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    Nice cag
    Nice cage!

    Please post a picture of your clitty.. Maybe i can give you an opinion. You can send it via pm if you dont want to do it here.
     
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    Thanks the cage looks nice but it's heavy and due to its weight the cage hangs low. I have to tie a waist belt to support the cage and keep it tight and snug.

    I would have posted a picture but my KH is sleeping and I'm locked. I dare not wake her up for this. Maybe tomorrow I'll request her to unlock me for a picture. As of now she is sleeping on her side and I'm smelling her ass. Heaven !
     
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    You are spot on Sir. Your experience in chastity is commendable. This is the only type of ring I have ever used previously also. It's so comfortable as it's wide and never pinches. The problem is with the weight of the cage. I use a waist belt to keep the cage in place. I will share my situation of bruising in a few days to see if it was a one time thing or something on going...
     
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    Good one… chaste husbands are relegated to cunt and ass sniffers…
     
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    Happened to me too, been months, has not changed still a dent in the erectile tissue.

    Sorry
     
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    I would recommend leavingthe cage off so you can get normal nocturnal erections for a few weeks, and if it has not healed itself then go see someone about it.

    It might be indicative of something more worrying that a little chastity play.
     
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    For me it sounds like a fractured boner. The defect can be redone by surgery.
     
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    Sadly no Shrinking no matter what. Belife me I checked.
     
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    Share your lock routine
     
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    Not on me, im to new to realy see any lasting results. I just asked around a lot, thats what I ment.
     
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    I just had the same thing (it’s why My current status is “unlocked”). I hated to, but I removed the cage and I’m letting it heal completely before proceeding. Health and safety first. It doesn’t happen often but sometimes things rub and an abrasion occurs. Don’t make it worse by trying to muscle through to cause permanent damage is my advice. I have a couple of permanent discolorations from ignoring the pain in the past.
     
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    So do I at the side of my shaft. Somehow i like this bruise.
     
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    I agree…on the journey I was faced with such a desire to keep going n considered not taking time to heal.
    In the end, tou need to respect tour body/health. Now that I have the fit right, there is no hurt, rubbing,sores etc.
     
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    Maybe you have been too ambitious in using a too small cage.. Or have you been fed with sexual stimulants as a form of torture while caged..? Dont overdo it… unless she intends to disable your penis in the quickest possible time.. so be it. So much for sacrifice, eh.?
    Gradually, the penis or rather the main brain (ok, the dickhead might have some smaller brain) will learn of the confinement space and signal a relaxing pulse to disable the erection since a pain is detected. Erectile tissues wont easily be damaged thru penis bondage.. more from penis caning..
     
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    Sacrificial scars for the all esteemed goddess.. “a lil tear on the lil dickie.. cant take it, you havent seen more yet”, said she.
     
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    Accidental bruising on the genitals is actually really minor. There's a lot of blood flow, and comparatively little tissue, so things will heal rapidly. 2-3 days max, and a bruise will heal.

    However, you need to figure out why you were injured. If the cage is too small, then adjust up to a larger one. Could also be due to nocturnal erection causing a pinch.

    Worse case is you got a blood clot.

    I 'pushed out' through the entire end of my current (garbage Chinese knockoff) cage and I bruised myself severely, my urethral opening impaled itself on one of the bars and I had deep purple bruises in a star pattern everywhere. It hurt really bad. I left my cage off, and 24 hours later, everything was healed and pain-free.

    That said, I burst a blood vessel on my penis and got subdermal bleeding, which caused a black spot, and nearly 20 years later, through chastity and non-chastity periods, that spot is still there. Sometimes, it looks like it is healing, but next time I get any kind of erection, it's back, identical to how it was before. It doesn't hurt, but it's kinda noticeable.
     
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    As there is no bone in a Penis/Clit, a fracture is very unlikely as fractures only occur in bones!
    My own cage is vey small, and I often get bruising on my Glans, due to arousal and not enough room in the cage to allow it, which is surely the whole point of a chastity cage?
    IMG_3385.JPG
     
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    Do you use a catheter ? How does it feel and would u recommend it ?
     
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    I think penis caning or electro torture should be a regular part of every couple.
     
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    Salute to this! The dick has been some source of joy for the little boy since teens.. once married and submitted, he should very well mature into torture and pain inflicted onto the penis for her amusement and domination.. that is the hallmark of every male..
     
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