Can’t make it through the night

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    Though I’m able to remain locked up throughout the entire day without any issues, my nighttime erections are on a whole other level. They are ADAMANT, and will not give up. Are there some people who, because they are growers, simply can’t make it through the night? Or will my body eventually acclimate?
     
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    The only way I can make it through a night is if I go to sleep drunk off my ass.
     
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    That’s one solution!
     
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    If you can't make it through the night drunk... you might want to try taking like 3 Aleeve or something before bed... Possibly use some numbing cream etc... I have no interested in wearing it through the night and my wife doesn't seem interested in it either.

    If she did I am sure I would figure something out until I got used to it.
     
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    #5 boisub, Dec 20, 2020
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    I’m assuming you’ve tried the usually suggested offered suggestions—cutting down on fluids before bedtime (taking into account the @King Hippo exception, of course), and getting up to pee when it wakes you up.

    Over time it does get easier, though it was never that big of a problem for me.

    Eventually it may even sometimes be kind of pleasant—a reminder of times past.
     
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    The problem with cutting down on fluids is that I wake up parched! Peeing can help temporarily...but like I said, my body is adamant!
     
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    You have to push thru it will grow accustom to it home
     
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    I still get woken up by erections. But it has got easier over time.
    It was constantly at first. After about a week locked, it goes down to a couple of times a night.
     
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    My issue was when I tried to sleep on my stomach. The cage and ring would pinch skin. I usually got up and took the cage off. When my KH asked about it, I felt guilty. So, I forced myself to not sleep on my stomach, problem solved.
     
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    It’s not the waking up that bothers me. It’s not being able to fall back asleep! 3” trying to become 7.5” while caged is hard to ignore at 2am...
     
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    I have 23 days of continuous caged experience, as a grower...

    My D did not give up and despite me thinkking he was broken, every time he was released for a wash and check he was fighting fit.

    My nighttime boner expererience is similar; Pain, general discomfort, rage, wanting and not wanting contact, feelings of despression, and then immense power...keep at it.

    My GF is now saying all of Jan is next. That feeels like a lifetime added on to the previous time. Acceptance is the word of the day :)

    I wonder what 31 days will be like. Perhaps ask me in Feb haha.
     
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    On a practical note, are you sleep deprived! I obviously COULD just stay locked, but I’m worried I’d lose some very valuable sleep...
     
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    Yes, sleep was a and is an issue.
     
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    I habe made very similar experiences and I think to know, how devilish this situation can be.
    I haven't solved it but it helps me to vary with the ring sizes of my cage.
    The Holy Trainer I use has four different ring sizes and when I wake up at night and simply can't stand the burning feeling of the balls due to prevented erections I switch to the largest diameter.
    Of course I have to shower my best friend with ice cold water to make him small enough, but switching ring size helps me to continue sleeping afterwards.
    In total it's not a solution but a work around. Maybe it also helps you, dear @Hucklebuck .
     
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    I know some one who has 2 cages 1 for the day, and one for the night.
     
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    Same problem.
     
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    How long caged? Do you have slack in your tube?

    I have a spiral steel cage that runs and agitates my penis day or night. Could be laying down effects you .
     
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    I to have the nighttime erection problem people say just stick it out its gets better but for how long I've been locked for 2 weeks and my D is not letting up will it get any easier
     
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    Years ago when we first started chastity it took a month for me. We faded away from it for decades.

    My Wife has restarted it but this time I have not had the issue. My meds keep erections at bay pretty much.

    Sleeping in cage only took a few days to adjust back too.

    Based on others comments you may need a couple more weeks.

    Good luck.
     
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    I tried 3 different (ball trap) devices - all ruining my sleep and not escape-proof.
    Then switched to one that is locked by my PA piercing. The 3rd attempt with adjustment of the size then led to the fact that i can sleep wonderfully - even with a very demanding middle part.
     
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    My cage of shame steel has been the friendliest I've had. I need to me able to use it at night even if it disturbs sleep.

    Good luck
     
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    Over time its become better for my husband. At first he would beg me to release him. I could tell he was in a fair amount of pain. I would check for blood flow which was never a problem then make him eat me to orgasm. That of course made things worse for him. He caught on quickly to not wake me. He doesn’t wake up much now but continues to moan in his sleep.
     
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    i have chat to some men on here and they sayed that they cant do all nigt time with the cage on them. and i think its prob cos they go very big and hard. well i mean they try to.
     
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    Last night I had a good night's sleep my little fella did not wake me up till 6am hope things will stay that way from now on
     
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    Approaching 4 weeks locked and the problems still persists, generally between 4.00 and 7.00.
    I have good and bad nights; not convinced it will ever change. My KH isn’t concerned and seems to be up for the long haul this time and suggests my orgasms will be few and far between.
     
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