Can’t make it through the night

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    I think it's a hurdle for anyone who is in a device. The main advice I can give is to GO PEE. If you're parched at night, take sips to drink the minimum needed to satisfy yourself. I don't have much experience as to whether it gets easier over time, as I am still getting my device fitted for long term wear, but I can imagine that the body will adjust to the new confines at least a little over time. I hope that things improve for you.
     
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    I think the OP gave a hint as to what might help. He said that he grows from 3 inches to 7.5 inches. That's only an "inflation ratio" of about 2 to 1.

    I think a (much) smaller cage would help a lot. I rotate cages of various sizes. (Cherry Keepers, the "standard", the "small" and the "Short". I fill each one while flaccid. (just barely on the standard).

    I DREAD sleeping in the standard. My erection attempts get too much leverage.
    I CAN sleep in the small.
    I am almost fully comfy sleeping in the short.

    Ironically, in the past, but my life is changing rapidly, I found that getting a satisfactory erection during the day allows my body to seem to rest more comfy at night. Of course, this is playing with fire, though. Alas, or hooray, I am now severely limited on ANY erections.

    And for what it's worth: I stayed locked for MOST of Locktober.....no cumming......My biggest challenge? The lack of sleep. So I hear ya.
     
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    That's a good point there. I know I had to shorten my cage and now that I think of it, the couple occasions I've worn it overnight, the shorter cage was much more comfortable.
     
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    Do you have keyholder?
     
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    Good for her. That's exactly what I would do. Does it make your cock try to get harder knowing she enjoys your predicament and pain?
     
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    I honestly try not to think tabout it as it just leads to attempted erections that are very uncomfortable, visiting Chastity Mansion is a poisened chalice as reading the various forums is not without discomfort!!
     
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    I find that bringing my knees up to my chest bit like a feral position relaxes my hard on and I go back to sleep
     
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    Well I really hope I've had a hand in several attempted painful erections;)
     
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    I will give that a try!
     
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    @Hucklebuck how has it worked out for you?

    I am on day 5 of sleeping with my cage on, and I have the exact same issue. I do hope it gets better, because I cannot continue in the long run with an bad sleep every night.
     
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    it nasty if you got a cage that hurt in the nite time. It tooked Mistress a bit to find me one that was ok all nite and its lovley now. so i hope you find one that ok for you.
     
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    Isn’t the frustration and agony part of the chastity experience and devotion to your Keyholder! It reminds you She rules. Endure for your Mistress/Keyholder/Wife!!
     
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    Not for me or my wife, but I know we are a minority on this forum.
     
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    I had the exact same experience, tried all kinds of devices. In the end, got a PA and left the ball trap devices in the rear view mirror and been happy ever since. Thought I would never get a piercing, but here I am...pierced and sleeping like a baby.

    My personal philophy....a chastity device should not interfere with your sleep. Many of have jobs that require critical thinking, so sleep deprivation shouldn't be part of the equation. The only thing that should hurt is the paddling my KH gives me when I can't stop being alpha after work.
     
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    So far my cherry keeper has not caused any real issues sleeping. Hope that continues due to medications erections are not a factor.
     
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    It is actually not my balls that are hurting, it is the cock itself, it feels like it is being squized like hell. I am pretty sure my cage is to tight, and I have ordered a wider one. But there is several weeks of waiting left.

    I just recently started to use my cage 24/7, and I have no issues at all during the day time.
     
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    Do you have room to get a finger under ring?
     
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    The base ring around the balls fits perfectly, and I can get a finger inside as well.

    It is the “penis tube” that is to narrow, I have to squeeze a bit to get in there even when flacid. But I have not any discomford while being awake, unless I get really exited.
     
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    Sounds like you need larger diameter tube. You would want just a light contact in tube too your flaccid diameter of shaft.
     
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    Thanks, that is not what I have today. But it is the size I have ordered :)
     
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    That should make a positive in comfort.
     
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    Mine eventually acclimatized.

    Imagine swimming out into a raging ocean surf. being knocked back wave after wave and then, finally, finding yourself out in an gentle rolling swell far beyond the waves.

    if you can stay locked for a couple of months then you could find yourself in that position.
    Like i did.
     
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    You still need proper fit to prevent edema or other issues.
     
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    praps a bit of your willy is get pinch a bit.
     
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    More like crushed!
    I am not going to sleep in it again. But I will try out my Holy trainer, until I get my new Looker.
     
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