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    My husband has to get an operation on one of his balls in a few weeks. Don't worry- I didnt stomp on them, much, its a hereditary condition. Thing is that he might not be able to wear chastity cages anymore, because his veins can't handle pressure. We didn't ask the doctor straight forward about the chastity cage, but he did explain that toys like cockrings are a no go. We've decided we will stop using the chastity cages (metal) for at least a few years to see how his condition develops. We don't want him to physically hurt and get complications. We will miss our chastity play however. He asked me if we could find a way to continue our chastity game in other ways, after his recovery. I'm exploring options, but haven't found any ideas that could work for us. My searching has brought me to this forum, so I'd thought to ask you guys for some advice. I suppose it's okay if he can get an erection..... as long as he can't touch it. Any ideas or tips will be greatly appreciated!

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    Honor system or Prince Albert.
     
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    It is true that most of the chastity devices rely on a ball trap design. With those being out of the question you may need to look for something like a belt. One that allows balls to be covered but not under pressure. Just not sure how that might affect his condition. Another option could be a PA piercing and using that to control him. Again, not sure how his condition would react. Personally, if doctor was comfortable mentioning cock rings, I'd be inclined to ask specific questions about chastity devices. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    You could try a glands only cage, in conjunction with a PA, or maybe go full belt?
     
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    Certainly an unfortunate situation for you both. Neither one of you want to loose the dynamic and that is understandable given how positive it is for many relationships.
    May I suggest the Bijou device from evotion wearables. He would need to get pierced with a P.A. that is no big deal and after it has healed during which he may not be inclined to play with it, he will be fitted with a very slick device that does ( to the best of my knowledge ) not interfere with his medical condition.
    Good luck!
     
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    I couldn't imagine that the PA would cause any issues as it is obviously revolving around the cords.

    I would bring up the PA. It might actually up your game having a 100 percent secure device.

    I never though I would want one, but I am almost certain that one is in my future but not for a long time. Wife would be in no way ready for that. Of course I have been wrong before.
     
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    If only there was chastity underwear....
     
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    I would also recommend him getting a PA and then an Evotion Bijou which is what I have. I cant wear ball trap devices but a Bijou is perfect.
     
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    Ooo- I did not expect so many responses so quick! Thanks, they are helpful. I never considered the PA suggestion. I am getting a little excited as a matter of fact. I didn't know these devices exist. I will look into it some more and discuss it with him later.

    The chastity underwear suggestion might also be a solution- especially in the early weeks/months after the recovery. We will be taking it easy at first, to see how things go. I always thought these things were easily unlocked/loosened, so I must say I didnt look much into them! Then again, I guess we have to compromise a little at first.
     
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    I have padlock locking leather shorts :)
     
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    How do they work? They look pretty interesting.
     
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    I bet that underwear will be a no go. Chances are it will be an order for no tight clothing after surgery..
     
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    I use them for toilet control mainly... but the lock round thighs and two locks on the waistband. They could work really well in this situation being real leather They are breathable.
     
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    W/we've looked at these many times. Are they as fun as they look?
     
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    I like them when he is on toilet restrictions..... they work great
     
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    You could always try hypnosis. A hypnotist I like a lot is Vive and his files are free to use.

    Try these out. You could probably still get hard, but if you listen to all of these a few times over to really wire in their suggestions, it should result in an experience that's more or less similar to wearing a cage.

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/surrender-orgasms/

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/possession/

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/they-cum-first/

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/senses/

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/red-light/

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/submissive-conditioning/

    https://vive-hypnosis.com/hypnosis/submissive-reflections/
     
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    The first reply mentioned the honour system. That's what I use and I find it works better than a cage. It's the knowledge that I could easily masturbate if I wanted, but I won't because I have made a commitment. It increases the sense of submission. You do need willpower but if you can manage it this is a great option.

    Good luck.
     
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    I am also on the honor system.

    You want him to show true commitment, have him go cageless.

    He can be good when you are with him, but can he be loyal and faithful when you are not there?

    This could be a true test of his love for you.

    Iso.
     
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    And if a PA is too much, a frenum piercing can also secure a device without a ball trap, the Evotion devices have that option.
     
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    We use the honor and have for a few years MOST of the time. I am not to masturbate every without permission first from the wife. In addition to the honor system, I am locked up as a reminder about 10 days to 2 weeks occasionally.
     
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    My wife had no desire to put me in a cage, but she does enjoy teasing and denying my orgasms. I don't get off but I have a lot more fun than being in a cage. My wife loves the fact that I'm horny and on the edge all the time.
     
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    BINGO! I have a frenum piercing and an Evotion Bijou, and its terrific. A frenum is less complicated, and (I think) heels faster than a PA. And there's no risk of urethral trauma.
     
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