Asexual wife and long term locked

If your wife dislikes you being in a device then maybe you should at least consider giving it up. If she is now asexual and you have a high libido then it seems like masturbating more often could be a big stress reliever for your relationship. It is no longer about your porn watching/masturbation habits but now involves her changing sexual preferences. If you need a chastity device to keep you from divorcing or cheating on her then maybe you could try some sort of therapy with her. Best of luck to you.

 

When we infrequently have penetrative sex my wife often experienced pain just as I'm about to cum, even though I'm small & cum very quickly. She was allowing me sex even though doesn't seem to get any enjoyment from it. If I spend time on foreplay & getting her to cum with toys/my tongue then intercourse is more comfortable for her, but more often than not she's not interested in anything but a 'quickie' to let me cum.

Today she heard something on the radio about vaginal atrophy and has made an appointment wit a doctor to discuss it. Maybe to get hormone cream/tablets.

I'm locked in long term chastity and she is the KH as I don't want her to feel any pressure to allow penetration. It seems that without regular penetration & orgasms the vagina narrows & shortens and the lining thins. So unless the doctors can help maybe we won't be able to ever have penetrative sex again. I'm coming to terms with that and would be happy touching & licking her while staying locked so that she does not have to worry about me getting carried away and wanting penetration. I just hope she will relax and stop feeling guilty about cumming herself while I stay locked. For year & years I have been the one cumming while she didn't so I guess I can't really complain now.