i have been lurking around for a while and realized I never posted an introduction, so here goes. My interest in chastity started in about 1990 when my fiancée (now my wife) and I got brave and went to a adult store in downtown Minneapolis. They had a leather sheath with a padlock that we got and played with, but it was a toy. After we got married I found the first version of the Kali’s teeth device from TPE and got that. Then it was the Remy tune before the CB3K and then CB6Ks. I enjoyed them, but none were secure and some were unbearable after a handful of days. Over the years my wife has had a lot of medical issues, and her hormones are a mess, but she can’t take anything because the doctors worry about messing up other things. So she is completely asexual. She does not even want to be touched in a casual way, and she cringes when our son hugs her. I had a high libido, and I was on the verge of all kinds of things, including cheating or divorce, but decided I would make our lack of intimacy a chastity challenge. I decided that saving our marriage was worth the $600 for a Lori chastity tube. I got pierced and eventually got the money and ordered the device. With my wife being asexual she dislikes my wearing the Lori cage, and really wishes I would stop! But she said that if it is a choice between that or our marriage she would tolerate my being locked. I try to go without locking, but after a few months I am jerking off and watching porn a lot, so I go back to locking up. My last lock up was over 4 months without removal. So I play a bit with Emlalock, and Chastikey and try to keep my key out of my own grasp.