I've been chastised just under a month. Last 3 days, my arousal has plummeted. Is this a usual thing or just something I'm getting for moment?
Same with me, the first three weeks it goes up and then it looks like the body gives in and accepts the locking up. This is always a difficult time for me since tease and deny play is then not so much fun anymore and I am sometimes a little depressed. I am now in week 4....
Okay least I know it's not just me. Still get a complete boner at the slightest touch of the cage from my KH and obey any sexual needs or desires from my KH but I don't feel as need it lol .
i guess I am lucky, except for Locktober when I got nothing. I am allowed to orgasm when my wife/keyholder allows it and the choice on how is hers. Sometimes it can be PIV, but she does have ways of letting me orgasm without access to her mouth or pussy. It can be locked in a pillory with a finger in my ass and her reaching around pumping my cock, or cuffed hands behind my back in a shower and a soap hand job. But the most devious, standing with my legs spread out, my arms tied above my head, and her giving me a whipping. When she finishes, she rubs her body against mine and then drops to her knees and licks my cock thru its cage until I am so worked up I am whimpering. Then she places her hitachi vibrator against my cage until I blow.
Arousal ebbs and flows for me too. I don't get nearly as turned on now that I'm locked all the time, but back when chastity was new, I could get as turned on as having sex, while locked. Now I'm also older, but I only get about 60% turned on, and for the rest, I'd need genital stimulation. The daily level of arousal though, varies from day to day, and week to week I find.
Sometimes I feel like it has a cycle, almost like a female's, where I peak at certain times and then drops at others.
It's been about a month since my last O. As far as my arousal levels, I can definitely say that after the first 3 weeks of buildup, the past week was a little disappointing.