Any tips for leading an FLR with adult child home from university

Well there is no reason he cant say in chastity for you. And hubby can do more vanilla things for you around the house. You just might have to wait til to do more sexual stuff.

 

We are happy to have no kids here now. I cannot see how we managed our kink when they were here, but we did. a 19 yo is too smart to be so close to his parents’ kinky lifestyle.
I also cannot imagine leveling with him.
Last night President said that this next month will be painful. Maybe that is what he is talking about.
It will take sacrifice to get through this.
Your wife can still put you in chastity. She can also require you to have a rock in your shoe to honor her.
Good luck to all of us.

 

It does change things admittedly. But the chastity aspect shouldn't be one of them!

 

Same problem here.

We are lucky in that our daughter does not come down from her room before 11am and that we have a small cabin in our garden..

This morning we took my wife's hiachi wand, a dildo and a riding crop to the cabin. She closed all blinds except one which she left with a small gap at the bottom.

I was sent outside while she undressed and masturbated to a wonderful climax.

Afterwards she asked if I had been peeping. I confessed yes and was beaten with the crop.

I'm not sure what she has in mind for tomorrow morning.

 

We have a cousin staying with us from NYC who basically fled before they locked it down. He stays in the house on the weekends and in an apartment in our shop during the week (it doesnt have a shower yet so not good for full time living). We've had to adjust in a few ways, like oral instead of hitatchi when we have guests. I'm not complaining!

 

I agree here! Madam says there is no reason whatsoever to remove my cage!

 

We have one of the boys back in the house, for now.

It works the same, whether the kids are back or not. It worked that way before they left. It works that way when they come back. And they do come back...

 

we have many children with a large spread in ages(30 years so far). we have always told them we will talk about anything but our sex lives. sex questions are fielded by puck and they get very straight answers about bdsm, chasity, sexual orientation, gender identity and everything under the sheets but never about what we do personally. still from their question it is obvious that they know quite a bit about what their parents do. they are aware we are very different than others in the world but it is all they ever knew of how parents are. if you try to hide your lifestyle don't think for a minute the kids don't know your hiding something. we are very upfront and tell them what goes on between their parents is not something they should be concerned about. though the fact is they think we are normal and the vanilla people in the world are a little weird.
i would hate to be in the position where i was hiding it, then they stumble across it and think there is something wrong about me because of my lifestyle. as most of us here know we are a very small minority in the world which does not have a positive view of our lifestyles.

 

This is such a good point and so well thought out. You all are totally, wonderfully being the change you want to see in the world. How does something become more acceptable and well-known without people at least building a climate that's accommodating?

So good for you all, that's inspirational.

 

We are the same. We never felt it necessary to hide our relationship. I have 3 grown up sons and they are all aware. Questions are sometimes asked and answered honestly. They have varying degree of interest. We have never pushed anything on to them. As they have all said....each to their own and if it works for you then go for it.

 

My butt took a beating last week. Everyday something different: dressage whip, hawthorn stems. Blackthorn and rose finishing last Friday with nettles and the cane. I could see small drops of blood on the floor. After, my wife had to remove rosethornes with tweezers.

 

I can sympathize with your plight. My widowed mother in law was visiting before this started and has not returned to her home in Florida. We recently discovered my wife is pregnant and she is all happy her Mom is stranded here.

 

Our 21 year old son is at home and he certainly can see that my Wife is the boss around here

But my chastity is private