Anti cheating device

There’s plenty of times that I really, really wanted to be released. If I had access to an emergency key I probably would have used it and figured out an excuse or reason later. Although everyone has their own reasons for participating in the chastity lifestyle, being locked up in a device that you cannot remove is definitely a great tool to prevent cheating.
I would never cheat on my wife/mistress. That being said I’m only human and not 100% certain that if the possibility would present itself that I would make the right decision. I can say from experience that being caged prevented me from making bad decisions on several occasions.
I have a Freind that lives in Phoenix AZ that was married before, he’s now divorced for about 15 years. He makes a ton of money in aviation sales and he loves the company of escorts. When I visit him he always has a different one hanging around taking care of his needs. Sometimes more than one. I’m not talking about some street hookers either, these are super hot, super model looking women. When I visit, I seldom have my wife with me. On several occasions he offered to set me up with girls from the same “agency” and I obviously had to decline due to my locked status. He is unaware of me being locked, so he thinks I’m super faithful to my wife. I’ll be honest, I have seriously considered his offer but my locked penis prevented me from making that fantasy becoming a reality. Like the original poster mentioned as well, fooling around is not really an option either. It would inevitably lead to the woman’s awkward discovery of the device, embarrassment of my Freind possibly finding out, etc…. So I can attest that a locked device that you can’t remove does exactly what it’s supposed to do, lock up your sexuality.

 

I would never cheat on my Madam, for us it’s all about control and commitment. Madam enjoys me being restricted and locked, and also the difficulties and inconveniences I have that come with it.

 

I completely agree with the peace of mind that chastity can provide for a significant other. For us it’s less about her worry of cheating with another person, it’s watching porn and mastering. For us that’s always been the fear for both of us. Porn addiction is real, and deadly to relationships.

 

So true!

 

I get that.
B.C. Once my wife was cleaning through the cupboard, and there was supposed to be some enhancing lubricant in with some other rarely used stuff. So I come home and she is really pissed right.

"Well where is is then?
You've taken it somewhere"...

I mean I couldn't even think when I'd have had the opportunity, but she had just latched on to some really deep rooted insecurities and was flying with it.

Eventually I found them at the back of the cupboard, but she was too far gone for more than a grunt of acknowledgement.

It's love.
Completely irrational.
A complete pain in the arse at times yet we cannot live without it. Which also describes chastity.

The symbology of locking your cock and handing your wife of many years the key is not lost on them, even if they don't quite know why at first.

 

"Latched on to some really deep seated insecurities and was flying with it". This. This is one of the many reasons I love having my OH in chastity. As I will admit that I do this too. Chastity helps with the occasional irrational meltdowns, which are a product of past trauma.

 

Weird but true: Chastity helped me fall in love with my wife's insecurities. She apologizes for them, but I've learned to appreciate that she has to go through them sometimes, and I'm there to help her do so.

 

That is so lovely! <3

 

I have never cheated on my current partner but I have done on a previous partner. It’s not something I'm proud of. I'm not locked due to cheating, but my wife and I look at chastity and my chastity tattoo as a way to make any potential cheating opportunities more difficult. I initially introduced chastity to her as a way to curb my masturbation habits, but now, keeping me in chastity gives us peace of mind that I'm saving my orgasms for us.