A question about wet dreams...

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    So, I read on various message boards that some guys in chastity started to get wet dreams after being locked up and not getting an orgasm usually in 5 to 7 month range. Some were longer and some were shorter but the majority seem to fall into that range. Then some people suggested that persistent sexual teasing without orgasm may increase wet dream frequencies some, but would vary between guys.

    I never had a wet dream, because for years I've been a compulsive masturbator and until I started chastity, the longest I went without orgasm was only a few days. I'm currently on day 6 of a 4-week lockup session and I'm a porn addict (as my username should hint ;)), so I watch it get aroused and excited literally every day. I'm not at all afraid of getting wet dreams, but what I read did spark my curiosity and I can't help wondering if I keep watching porn and get myself all excited every day, while making my sessions incrementally longer, would I start getting them too after a few weeks?

    What are your thoughts?
     
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    Sorry for the double post but I made a mistake and didn't catch it in time... When I mentioned in the beginning "5 to 7 month range" that should've been 5 to 7 week range. Sorry if that confused anyone. :oops:
     
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    Whether 5-7 weeks or months, everyone is different. I had wet dreams when I was a kid going through puberty, but haven’t had but one in my “adult” life - and currently denied a little over 6 months. Is it possible? Sure maybe, but if it happens it happens - don’t think there’s a defined time when it might. Age may also play a factor, I’m over 50, so not sure there.

    I do have occasional emissions when using the bathroom - probably the additional pressure on the prostate that triggers… a little blob or two of cum leaks out.
     
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    That's what I observed these past few months when I started chastity. I every so often I would get a minor emission while using the bathroom... Wonder if that might prevent wet dreams. I mean, yea if it happens it happens. As I said, I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious because it was an interesting read for me. I'd still like to know more from others.
     
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    #5 harddenial, Dec 10, 2023
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    I'm in long term denial and get them regularly, like weekly or twice weekly. Just a dribble or ooze, nothing like an orgasm. Arousal and teasing an important contributor. I read somewhere that good hydration also leads to the production of more juice. (I've had a vasectomy so it's not juice from my balls, rather prostate and other glands.)
     
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    Interesting... My last session was 23 days and I was getting aroused and excited every day, mostly from self-teasing (watching porn) but a few days I was unintentionally aroused by seeing very attractive ladies at the store I work. After a full week I started leaking leaking almost every day. On the 3rd week, I was leaking several times per day. Do you think that me leaking so much in a short time might've prevented a wet dream? Or do you think there's another factor involved here?
     
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    For me, if I get them, it has to be in a very comfortable cage, an uncomfortable one will wake me up. If I have them, it's typically only three. One at day 15, one at day 30, and one at day 45, and then they stop.

    It's a strange sensation when they happen because it all just streams out rather than come out in pulses. They leave me completely soaked and it really sinks in that it is my wife controlling it, not me.
     
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    They just happen and it's not related to levels of horniness or if you've been watching porn.
     
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    I'm getting conflicting feedback here... :confused:
     
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    I had the occassional wet dream as a teen but none after becoming an adult.
    Long term chastity changed that.
    Now at about 6 months but times do vary i will experience wet dreams again.
    I actually enjoy them. No pleasure just a release and very humiliating.
     
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    As far as I can remember my nocturnal emissions were invariably accompanied/triggered by erotic dreams.

    I'm not sure if all of them were.
    Certainly most of them.


    And

    The frequency seems random/erratic.
     
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    Hmmm. Interesting indeed.
     
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    Almost 9 months since an ejaculation and no wet dreams or ejaculations.

    I think my body has just accepted it.
     
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    I get wet dreams quite easily. Locked for a bit more than 2 weeks now, and had 2 nocturnal emissions.
    I haven’t noticed any emissions when using the toilet tough.
     
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    When I was 20, I abstained from ejaculation for about half a year. The first wet dream occurred at 8 weeks, after which they occurred consistently every 3-4 weeks. Then I masturbated a lot and I didn't have any. And this year, after abstinence in a chastity, I had 3 wet dreams with a break of about 5 weeks. But they were all outside the cage, since I did not sleep in it. Now I will sleep in it, so it’s interesting to experience wet dream in a cage myself. I read that it feels different, and for some it even hurt.
     
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    Wow, so impressive. You are so lucky. You don't have to care about ejaculation anymore. No milking, no wet dreams.
    You get benefits from chastity without side needs and side effects.
     
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    All interesting and fascinating feedback, but I’m still wondering if teasing on a daily basis will have any effect on how often wet dreams can occur. What are all your thoughts on that?
     
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    My personal opinion is that teasing on daily basis will not increase the frequency.
    But if you don't tease yourself or watch porn regularly, you haven't cum for weeks, if you watch porn today and tease yourself, the chance that it will happened next night is higher.
    My suggestion, that it can work as trigger for your mind, like "now it's the time".
    But in my experience it only works as a trigger, when you don't tease yourself or watch porn for couple weeks.
     
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    Sexual excitement during the day does seem to increase the chance for me.
     
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    From both your responses it seems to me like for some guys, it could increase the frequency and for others it could decrease it. I understand everyone is different but it sounds like this varies so much between guys that it may be considered “Random”.

    Does this sound about right?
     
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    I also have never had a wet dream, ever. I’ve had lots of erotic dreams, some very intense but never any discharge. My Madam however can and does orgasm in her sleep quite often,
     
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    You know something... I was thinking, after a full week of no orgasms, I often wake up with a full erection followed by leakage immediately after. Does that count as a wet dream or is it simply leakage?
     
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    Just leaking. It will take a while, up to 2 month, until you wake up with feeling, that something is about to happen but it didn't happen. And then after one of these feelings, you will see, that something really happened and you actually made yourself wet.
    Of course there are the chance that it will never happened, because semen retention of some males is just enough for them and they don't have wet dreams.
     
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    Lol, I'm going through a phase at the moment where I feel like I might orgasm during the day.
    Wet too.
    Does this mean I am having wet daydreams?
     
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