The Princess treatment!

Gigaman is a lucky man indeed.

 

Well, to be honest, if I did that to my partner it would freak her out totally. We all respond differently and there is no one perfect path.

 

Actually I think I enjoyed it more than you did BK, ok ya I did enjoy it more.

What she did not tell everyone is that she denied me PIV sex this morning and said I need to wear a cage for 30 days before we can discuss it again. I know for a lot of you guys that’s a walk in the park but for me it’s a pretty big challenge.

Things are getting rough around here, the game is over and the lifestyle begins I guess. This girl knows way to much now!

 

Embrace your role and serve Her well.

 

You know what they say, "A man (or Woman, not to be sexist) who enjoys his job, never works a day in his life".
Here's an early New Years toast, "May we all love our JOBs"

 

LOL, why do you think she ordered all of those new cages? I'm sure she's only thinking about your comfort! Oh, she didn't tell you, the rest of us knew!

 

I love bathing my goddess in this manner and she loves it too. Especially when I’m on my knees looking up at her lathering her legs

 

Bath time, in the tub, me on my knees locked and constrained, is fundamental to my service and her ascension. It is a huge erotic privilege to rub bath oils on her and wash her hair and dry her. It relaxes her, and she often allows holy worship after. I'm amazed if everyone doesn't do this.

 

Giving my Goddess a shower from head to toes is a regular task I do for her. I love doing it

 

That's wonderful news @Gigaman. No, it won't be easy, it's not a walk in the park. A real 30 days without release (except, perhaps, for *supervised* cleaning), without erection, will really reshape your brain and help you finally accept your submission to your Princess, accept that your maleness can no longer protect you from intimacy and closeness with your wife, accept that she is your leader and are submissive. I'm so proud of how you're changing and how chastity is also helping @BKwife develop. Look at her now, confident enough to call us "little subs" and telling us to do our "jobs."

Have you thought about asking her to keep you chaste and erection-free until February 14, the Day of Lovers?

 

Feel lucky

 

I agree. It's such an intimately relaxing experience, being cleaned by your partner.

Having him exfoliate My body with a sugar/salt scrub is one of My favorite indulgences. As is the lotion rubdown afterwards.

 

Actually I now know I am more than lucky.

 

Yes! Love this.

 

Just take the 30 days one at a time. My longest as been two weeks but I find myself wanting to go longer but I don't have the balls to tell her. It can be a little scary

 

I would think you would know better than to ask at this point. The velvet gloves are off and
it is time to think before you act. I know it is difficult to resist when you are so close.

@Rectrix is right. It will make you think of her before yourself, which is what we should always do.

My love likes the drying off, especially Her legs. I love looking up just like @Wonderwomanssub
does. I feel that is the best place for me to be. I just follow Her lead.

 

Rectrix, thanks for the kind words.

I believe a lot of people here think we are on some kind of a perfect journey, but we’re not. The fact is I still have problems being locked all of the time. I get painful nighttime erections and pinching and blood blisters.

So many people tell me they are envious of me because of the way BK is. The fact is BK and I are envious of all the guys and couples that can actually practice full time chastity. We want it so bad.

I did order 4 new cages so I hope I can find something that works for me. They are all knockoffs but we hope that will help us get the size and type of cage that works for me so we can eventually order a custom cage.

And as I have said before please don’t give that girl any more ideas. Since she has been on here things have changed a lot. Yes I get more fantasy Femdom stuff just the way I like it. But she also has a lot of conversations with people that give her ideas and she going her own way with it. Everything she does is not so enjoyable on my end anymore. I understand it’s not supposed to be for me but things are moving fast sometimes. Wow it just popped into my head, BK use to say that to me in the beginning when I pushed her to fast with this stuff. She is at work right now but I assume that will get a big smile out of her when she reads that.

 

I hear you brother, we are in the same boat.

 

Mrs Chaste enjoys a good back scrub from me when she has a bath but funnily enough when it comes to showering she prefers to do it to me! Needless to say she seems to spend a lot of time cleaning my cage! And when she gets me to the point where I'm straining to break out of the steel bars of my cage she instructs me to rinse off and get dried!

 

I've always loved bathing my wife. In our previous house we had a double shower and a large tub. Took almost all of our showers together, and I'd nearly always do at least some washing for her.

We moved to California and downsized, and new house has a 1 person shower (we could squeeze in but not comfortable) and small tub (a bit better, but still a squeeze. Now that I'm in chastity, I more than ever miss washing and toweling her. BUT…this spring we're doing a renovation to expand our bathroom with a double shower! I expect to worship her frequently again, with soap, salt scrubs, towel drying, and when she permits me, my tongue and fingers.

 

The more my wife connects pampering with my chastity, the more she embraces chastity. No books, no hints, no requests..........just a realization that one behavior drives another.

Gigaman has the formula. He should be copied by most of us.