Longest I have been left between orgasms is 6 weeks, but with daily edging to underline my condition cock was not mine. Loved the physical and mental changes that developed with a locked cage, Agree with other posts that you focus more on your owners pleasure and not your own,
Agree 100%. I’ve said before it’s like a training or programming that occurs over the long term, and locking longer etc. I’m at the point now that I never think of my pleasure first, always hers. I know there’s little to no chance I’ll be allowed to cum, so that takes that pressure off.
We are preprogrammed to want to penetrate and orgasm. Chastity makes a better lover, one who is no longer selfish, understands that it’s not about him at all.
The life without orgasms (9.5 months since my last) is highly changeable. Sometimes I want to focus my attention on her, and sometimes I want to just work so long and hard that I completely wear myself out. The only contant for me this time is insatiable horniness. It constantly reminds me of her and I crave her attention, which sometimes annoys me.
Well said and I should have probably said “reprogrammed” because you’re correct - the programming (for both sexes) is penetrate till he cums and then sex is over… and wow is that wrong and so many miss out on so much more from their sex lives!!