Sleepless nights poll

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by dkid13, Apr 2, 2023.

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Do night time erections wake you at night

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  1. dkid13
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    I've recently began more full-time cage wearing, and like most, my biggest struggle is night time wearing.

    There is a whole library of posts relating to helping newbies adjust to night time cage wearing. But the advice, and experiences are all over the place. So I'd like to create a poll.

    Please only participate in the poll if you consider yourself to have ALREADY ADJUSTED to sleeping in your cage e.g. it is now a permanent part of your life.

    Also, your answer is to represent your AVERAGE NIGHT of sleep.

    Thanks for your input!
     
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    Waking at night to pee (3 to 5am) is a factor of how much fluid I've drink in the late afternoon, its the same regardless of if I'm caged or un-caged. This is after sleeping caged for a while and getting used to it (must be over a year now).

    I'm not caged every night, Mistress often likes me uncaged while sleeping. The last couple of nights she had kept me locked, the rest of the week I was unlocked for sleeping. The locked nights where the best sleep I had all week (I track sleep stats), that was probably due to going to bed a bit earlier and the weather being a bit cooler.
     
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    I’m on my second year of almost 24/7 wear, fourth year overall. The first year of constant wear, sleeping would be interrupted maybe once or twice a night and I’d have to adjust or get up and pee. Then I went from the MCN 2.25” Adaptus down to a 1.75” MCN Amicus cage and as long as I don’t drink too much water too close to bedtime, I sleep through the night 99% of the time. Very very rarely will an erection attempt wake me up, and it’s usually if we’ve had a serious tease session or something.
    I should add, I’m on testosterone and I take daily 5mg cialis and I’m still fine to sleep through the night. So the correct size cage definitely helps stop the attempted erections before they are painful, I also put a little lotion around the base ring each night before bed to stop any ball burn from the ring.
     
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    I have 3 to 6 erections per night
     
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    Not too early, buy it's often my alarm clock.
     
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    More importantly, do they wake you? And how long have you been sleeping in your cage?
     
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    Grower not shower. Once I got a cage that was the exact length while flaccid, erections stopped causing discomfort at night. That was years ago. Spend most nights locked.
     
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    That’s the biggest reason I went to a full belt. The tube stops any growth and the belt does not allow any moment away from the body. Also it 100 percent vib prove.
     
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    this is a good testimony. Do you mind sharing your uncaged flaccid and erect size? @Intensity appears to suggest his solution was to go for flaccid size while you presumably went shorter.
     
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    I struggled with it the first few weeks for sure, but after that it was almost never an issue.

    now post hrt I probably don’t even get night time erections, but have a new fun issue where i’ve been woken up by a ball slipping out cause they shrank and i’m still using the same cage from years ago
     
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    Uncaged flaccid right around 2.25”-2.5”, erect about 7”. So I thought the 2.25” MCN cage would be perfect, but going for the tighter 1.75” has actually been much more comfortable all around for me.
     
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    After a few weeks of continuously locked they don't wake me, but those first few weeks are tough.
     
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    Same here. 4 months in, it's nearly never an issue.

    What is interesting, and fun, though is being somewhat aroused, slightly awake in the middle of the night, and me penis twitching against the cage. Sort of trying to get hard, but not full on. It's an arousing sensation that feels amazingly frustrating.
     
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    I have experienced similar.

    I also find that, after some weeks (6-8 maybe), I also forget about the cage during a normal day, and then when my KH teases me, grabs me, says something like "I love having you locked" then it's sometimes like my body has saved up the boner attemps and now it wants me to get as hard as possible. Sometimes just looking at her is enough, haha.
     
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    same here, it can be rough To start but your body will adjust to it.
     
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    My wife is strictly against overnight caging. So I have never worn one overnight. Sometimes I have trouble sleeping regardless because I'm just so horny and wake up with raging hard ons. I honestly don't think the cage matters. You'll wake up horny either way.
     
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    Yes they definitely do wake me up and I've been sleeping in the cage since last September
     
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    I get up at least once or twice to pee regardless if I'm wearing a chastity cage or not. So when I do sleep with a cage on it's no different. Still once or twice to pee. Only difference is I prob wake up slightly earlier than I would with out the cage since the restriction will wake me up before my body wakes me up to go to the bathroom
     
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    I have been non-stop horny as hell since last night. Something fell into place with my wife and clicked, her confidence has been growing and she said she knows what she wants (from me) and appreciates everything I've introduced to her about chastity. I wanted, more like needed some play time last night. She said no

    At any rate, she stated last night my penis is hers, I'm not allowed to touch or play with it (even through the cage) unless she says so. She says she likes being in control and is going to dig in to
    My wife hit a new stride yesterday, seriously took charge and threw me for a loop. Without going into details, it left me denied and horny as hell! All night, this morning, all day today and still now. Trouble sleeping, not because of pain, but just wanting OUT....NOW! Needing relief, and realizing her conviction and control has grown stronger and she is more definitive in what she wants.
     
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