Her hand gently squeezes my throbbing shaft. She runs her grip upwards. Downwards. Slowly. Methodically. Cold lubricated palms caress my tip with each stroke. The feeling of impending climax builds within me all too soon. A tingling sensation throughout my penis, a tensing of the shaft, faster and more intense breathing. My arms tighten against the restraints. My wife understands the signals. I’m close to the edge. A mischievous glow consumes her usually sweet appearance. Her smile widens. She has me. “Dont cum yet baby, this is just the warm up.” She mocks as her grip loosens. Her motions paused. She knows the game from this point, I taught her all too well. 10 seconds play. 10 seconds waiting. There was a beauty in this method: the perfect ruin. I rue the day I taught her. Designed for a man with stamina; the man I used to be. Waiting over, her fingers press against my fully attentive glans. Swirling now thickening lubricant against it as if she was toying with her own clitoris. Gently. Sensually. I long for more fervent stimulation. My hips raise, willing her hands to take hold, to pleasure me in a way I’m no longer permitted. Stroking furiously until streams of semen forcefully exude up my torso. She ignores these signs. She already has me. She knows it. Waiting. Im agonising at the lack of stimulation. There’s a sense of tingling at the top of my penis. Just a little more energy and she could bring me the orgasm I yearn for. Slighter touch still. The back of her fingernails gently stroke upwards along the full length of my burgeoning manhood. Lighter trails are left on my lube glistening shaft. The slow strokes create a frustrated clutch across my chest. The orgasmic sensations in my penis diminish. The tingling at the tip heightens. Waiting… Her hands ignore my genitals. Gentle caresses against my thigh send a shiver towards my penis, with them the barriers are brought down. Semen pours onto my lower abdomen. I feel nothing in the moments. I lay in my disappointment feeling the warm pools turn to cooler trickles around my scrotum. I return to my cage more frustrated, more desperate, more submissive than when she began. “Relief” she calls this.
Edging and Denial while caged is a wonderful and addicting…. Currently I’m on day 47 in my HTv4 with 40mm Nub sleeve and a 45mm base ring with denial and edging … only exception is for cleanings every three days Previously, I had been caged for 101 days until my Goddess Sherrie let me out for a glorious BJ and ball play. Then back in the cage for this current Journey… I have no idea when my next release will be.
Addiction is certainly correct. That’s for both parties. I’d currently say our sex life is as good, as rewarding and as loving as it’s ever been… Yet, I haven’t had a full orgasm in 2 months!
That's my current goal... Going 2 full months without a full orgasm for the first time. I'm already half way there and I'm still doing pretty good.
Love it! The built up energy and sexual tension is such a fantastic boost of fun (only 19 days in so far this round). I'm losing my mind at time (like the fantastic play time we had this morning) but love what it does between us. My wife's feedback on this post @IB-Chaste : "Wow…that’s good! Very well written...and executed. "
Awesome! It is well worth the experience. For you to know how it feels and for any keyholders/loving wives involved to learn that you don't really need to orgasm (or be unlocked for that matter). That revelation changes everything.
Absolutely! There’s nothing better in married life than the thrill of the “Chase” and edging and denial. From my Goddess.. I love the Journey and devotion to her!
Thank you. My feedback on my wife’s execution: You’re too good at that! She asked why… Me: When I was controlling it before I’d allow you to go a bit further so I could get closer to orgasm. It was more enjoyable. I got more pleasure from it. She replied: So you’ve been cheating!! I think she really understands this whole game a little too well these days. For her to keep me from orgasm for two months and in a constant state of ‘bliss’ is really something spectacular. I don’t feel as denied as I do feel completely sexually charged all the time. There has been no lull in my mood and therefore no ill feelings between us, yet the effort she has to put in these days is beyond minimal. She’s far more comfortable than ever in the denial. She just does the things she enjoys whenever she wants. She does them in lingerie and says no when I ask to orgasm. It helps that her body confidence is skyrocketing right now. We’ve both ditched the effort into household maintenance etc. that chastity creates and instead it’s harnessed into personal care and development. She keeps me locked so that instead of masturbating my hands are no longer gripped around my penis, they’re around a set of weights. She wants me to look good. It turns her on. Instead of cooking and coming home to the kids every evening she can hit the gym herself or go in the pool. It’s as about a shallow a reason to go through all this… but really that makes it all the more simplistic. I actually feel we’ve found perfect balance. She’s certainly mastered the perfect ruin that’s for sure.
That’s almost exactly how Sherrie rolls! At first she was not totally into me being caged 24/7, but now she understands exactly how I feel about devoting all of my sexual energy to her and giving her the the full attention she deserves. She dictates when and how I orgasm. After all.. Aren’t the women in our lives in control of our lives anyhow? Being Chaste and giving her the keys to our sexuality is the way to real happiness and devotion to each other!
My mind keeps coming back to this thread. We're on a similar trajectory, my wife gets better and better (at know what she wants, teasing and denying me, keeping me longing), and I'm so desperate right now for release...and @IB-Chaste's story of ruins will likely only take us more down that road vs full orgasm. Which I crave the orgasm, but know that the after effects aren't good. No matter how I try, it takes time to build back up to this place. But god I need release! There was a thread recently about orgasm vs caged orgasm or ruin vs caged, something like that. At the end of the day, the worst is "lock and forget". Second worst is a full orgasm. Everything else in between is frustrating bliss that serves to maximize the sexual tension and thus fun between us.
Ugh. I almost mentally orgasmed at this writesturbation. I'd show my GF, but she would say it was merely the witterings of a horny male with a tiny penis.
No need, new words get added to the dictionary all the time. Wordplay should be enjoyed, not disputed. That’s a shame. Lots of others seem to really like it. My next piece is about an experience I had whilst uncaged. I masturbate as I create my own meandering online contentions. I do get off on causing conflict with strangers. I feel that one will be more your thing. More relatable.