Anyone surprised by their non-kinky partner’s enthusiasm?

Nowhere yet. Time will tell.

 

She's developed a surprising fondness for paddling and flogging and some light bondage. Told me I'm in cage rest of life. I'm generally shocked how much she's taken to certain aspects of it.

 

Ditto!

 

My wife and I both were a bit kinky to begin with. Years ago we met on fetlife. Both of our kinks have evolved since then, and continue to do so.

 

Pegging to start. In general she has learned more of her dominate side and not just wanting to try things and keeping quiet but trying it.

 

You need to ask Claud Bear. I am curious what he would say about me.

 

Isn't everyone a little kinky?

 

I would never have considered my wife vanilla but the change in both her enthusiasm and excitement over chastity in the past couple of years has been very surprising. Where we are now and the restrictions I have are much more than I would have ever thought she would be interested in.

 

I consider myself vanilla. But am open to try new things. What types of play is your wife into? If you do not mind me asking

 

We have both always been kinky but it really surprised me how my Madam just went with whatever I said without batting an eye lid, after I’d told her I enjoyed anal had my own toys, she wanted to try it that evening and within 30 mins she had gone from using a dildo of hers to fisting me!

 

That's so romantic

 

She embraced chastity and loves it.

We don't do any of the other stuff that so many people seem to gravitate to.

 

That cage is barbaric… you wear that daily? Not with clothes? Wow it must be a hoot to wear it, what do you do when your teased?

 

That would be a long list. We’re very comfortable with each other which I think gives us the courage to try new things. We each have hard limits that line up nicely (no other people, feminization, “bathroom” stuff for example) but if it sounds interesting we’ll usually try it at least once. There are some scenarios I’ve written about in my journal if you’re interested.

 

My Wife (KH) surprises me all the time. From the beginning she was right into Male Chastity. As soon as she saw a cage, she wanted it and couldn't get it on me fast enough. She has gone from not wanting to hurt me to pushing her limits on how much pain I can take. At first she felt guilty and would allow me a orgasm several times a month, now she hasn't let me cum for 18 months and doesn't really care if I even have a orgasm again. We have been together for 35 years and I sometimes wonder how she became so good at tying me up. She never showed a kinky side, but she is now making up for lost time. So after 5 years of Male Chastity, she has told me several times that she wishes she would have heard of MC long ago, and that I would have been locked up a lot sooner.

 

Not quite the same, but my wife was submissive when I introduced her to chastity. I was very surprised at her enthusiasm for keeping me locked up.

 

Yes, I’m locked in this 24/7, with or without clothing. It’s open enough to allow thorough cleaning (while flaccid obviously) for long term wearability. As far as teasing, since the front part is mostly open, any of my Mistress’s touches drive me crazy. When I start to get hard the head swells enormously and the tube part gets locked in place on my shaft just behind it. It then starts becoming painful by design to prevent me from having an orgasm. For us it’s definitely a case of less is more.

 

other than she knows about 2 of them no change. she is not the keyholder of them

 

I introduced the cage to my now wife and in the beginning it did not go well as she felt the cage was a barrier between her and me. PIV was still a frequent occurrence and orgasms rarely denied. Over time she embraced the cage and wouldn’t let me leave the house without being locked. PIV and orgasms became much less frequent. She even got some handcuffs so if I was unlocked from my cage my hands were locked so I couldn’t touch my dick. Even though she had me locked unless she wanted to feel my dick, at the end of last year was the first time she had locked me without any unlocking for about two and a half months. This year has started with her new found understanding of keeping me truly pussy free. Previously, I would be unlocked for PIV but no orgasm or even allowed to bring her to orgasm orally. Now she has told me she wants to not only keep me locked with no release for PIV but also deny me giving her orgasms orally. Now all of her orgasms are from self pleasure while I remain locked only able to watch in aroused frustration. She also told me that previously the few orgasms she had allowed me to have were out of compassion and not to expect any. My only relief would be from the occasional nocturnal emission but she would prefer if I didn’t have those and if I am able to wake and prevent them she gives me high praise as her good boy.

All this from my lovely vanilla wife over the time frame of three years.

 

No male to female oral is a deal breaker for me. I'd be careful about letting that slip. Chaos is ahead.

 

Over 15 years? Probably nowhere. I think she indulges me from time to time, but that's about it. Somtimes it's just not going to be a thing. I think there are plenty of kinks she might be into (presumably, I've asked) that I might not be into. Ultimately we're people.

 

My very vanilla, non-kinky wife embraced it because I admitted to a porn & masturbation problem that I had hidden from her for 40+ years. I explained how I had learned it had ruined our intimacy and that I wanted to sacrifice my pleasure for hers to make up for all the years she suffered from a lack of sexuality.

She hates that I had played with myself and couldn't control my behavior. She took my keys hoping that it would be a short-term thing. We've since learned that I have an addiction. She is aware that we may need to live this way indefinitely.

But in the meantime, she's been pleasured more times in the past 2 years than in her previous 60+ years of life. And she is really enjoying the physical intimacy. I would suggest she is now addicted to non-sexual physical intimacy with lots of "hot sauce" thrown in. If she goes a week without it, she starts to experience withdrawal.

Our intimacy has very little to no kink whatsover, but it's about as hot as can be.

 

My wife and keyholder was in the beginning very shy…. I was only locked at night ….
Last year she had a real turnaround and she start with a few day and than she wanted more than a month, she trow away al of my boxershorts and now I ware panties and pantyhose everyday and I’m already 38 days locked up. We are going for 200 days now
She like it so much and don’t care about my cumming …..

 

Welcome to your future!