My wonderful KH wife and I are four months into our journey and all things we going well. As we’re still new, we don’t have any particular routine for locking back up after release. Just curious to know what types of routines or procedures you may have in place, or any advice you may care to share in establishing a routine. Right now, it’s been pretty much me re-locking when ‘I get around to it’. While clearly there’s some time needed to get nice and flaccid, I’m hoping to suggest to my KH some ideas, rules or structure surrounding the ‘re-lock’. Thoughts?
Great idea to ask Her what She wants and then go with that. Rules and structure will vary by Keyholder and what She wants. For us, we've established that my default condition is locked, so i know to lock up asap. asa
After I am released and my wife and I have our moment or moments together, she will ask me if I am ready to be relocked. Normally, after I shower, clean up, and perform any last minute trimming, I will place my cage back on. Sometimes she likes to turn the key in the lock, but if she has made no prior request I will lock up and give her back the key. Now during this time of year I ski quite a bit and when I am dressed and ready to leave she will give me the key and I will unlock and remove the cage. When I get back home, as I start to undress I will put my cage back on and relock and give her back the key.
We're about same time in, give or take. I'm only let out to get off. Then its either clean up and relock or I have option to wait until morning. More often then not I'm told to relock right after when things go down and I'm able to do so.
My Mistress has me put the cage on as soon as I clean-up. I then stand before her with my hands behind my back while she locks the cage and puts the key back in her digital lock box.
for "hygiene" release, I am given 15 minutes to unlock, clean up, and relock. Any longer then the 15 minutes results in punishment
We haven't really established our routine yet, but I've got a pretty good idea of how it will go. My wife likes to grab a shower immediately after any playtime, so while she's doing that I will go to our other bathroom in order to clean up and get myself nice and shaved down there. Then I'll go ahead and lock myself back up. The more I can do myself the less she has to worry about.
Of recent times she lets me out usually on Tuesday night (which is the beginning of our weekend), Tuesday is normally our date night unless I have done something stupid or she is not feeling well. She will let me be free until Thursday morning where it is expected that I will have locked myself up after my shower. She is not really bothered if I give myself orgasms during these few days, though normally ill do so with her present, sometimes Ill experiment with estim, but while i can use estim to a kind of an orgasm its not as good as stroking looking at her rear, but thinking its her doing it to me is fun lol Contrary to most on here if anything she has become less strict, she used to have me lock back up as soon as I was soft, still if I didnt have it on by the shower on Thursday there could be blood, so she is strict on that. She will then close the igloo lock sometime on Thursday and verify its indeed locked. Sometimes she will verify I have the cage on by sliding her knee up and kneeing me in the crotch...not hard, but hard enough for her to feel it....sometimes she will stretch out her lovely long legs and deliberately rest her feet on the cage, think i like that better than the knee lol
I am only unlocked for hygiene, about once a month for roughly 15 to 20 minutes to clean myself and the cage or belt (her choice) be milked, and then am immediately relocked.
We’re wrapping up year four, and my Wife is pretty laid back as far as re-locking after any teasing or for cleaning. She doesn’t say anything about it really, she just expects me to be locked all the time. In a way it’s even more of a mind fuck for me because its like she isn’t even thinking about my penis all the time I suppose I could stay out of my cage for a bit after cleaning, but I know she wouldn’t be pleased if a while later she found out I wasn’t caged, and I would pay for it.
Interesting thread. For us, we are working on implementing regular rituals around our dynamic -- and there should probably be ritual involved in unlocking and relocking so I'm interested to see what else develops here.
Normally if the cage has come off for play then madam will tell me to get cleaned up and locked up before I can even think about it.
My wife’s routine. Rubber hood, muzzle with gag, hand cuffs behind back, then cleaned up by her. Locked back up when she feels like. Restraints stay locked on till my cage is back on.
Here are a few things my husband and I do. We leave it up to chance. This way he thinks he is getting a chance to get out. We use a twenty sided dice and a smaller six sided dice. He rolls the dice. The six sided is a multiplier. The last time he rolled he got a 6 and a 20. That is 6x20 = 120 days locked. Then he rolls again. He got a 10 and a 1. 1x10 = 10 minutes every day out for cleaning or adjusting. Hope this helps.
I am unlocked for grooming about every 1-2 weeks. Out and right back in usually and that's not difficult. When she releases me about once a month for play, it's with the intention of giving me a full orgasm. Our goal is to prevent a drop. The orgasm is so mind blowing that I'm usually really horny again within a few hours. If I don't lock up right away, I struggle to get thru the night and sleep. I'm usually desperate to be locked back up again because I'm soooo tempted to play with myself. When I lock back up right away, it helps me sleep better even though I wake up from attempted erections. The inability to get an erection after an orgasm keeps me in an attentive, almost desperate state for the next week before things start to level out a little.