Ideas to make my Goddess happy?

Certainly! Here are 10 ideas to keep your goddess happy:

1. Express Devotion: Regularly communicate your admiration and appreciation for her. Let her know that she is cherished and valued in your life.
   
   
2. Create Sacred Moments: Dedicate special, quality time to be with her. This could be a weekly ritual, a quiet weekend together, or any other meaningful activity that strengthens your connection.
   
   
3. Attentive Listening: Practice active listening and show genuine interest in her thoughts and emotions. Cultivating deep communication is essential for understanding each other on a profound level.
   
   
4. Unexpected Offerings: Keep the element of surprise alive by occasionally presenting her with unexpected gifts, gestures, or acts of kindness that demonstrate your love and thoughtfulness.
   
   
5. Champion Her Ambitions: Support and encourage her in pursuing her dreams and aspirations. Actively engage in conversations about her goals and provide the necessary encouragement.
   
   
6. Balanced Partnership: Foster a sense of equality and teamwork by sharing responsibilities. This could include collaborating on various aspects of life, ensuring a harmonious and cooperative relationship.
   
   
7. Celestial Celebrations: Acknowledge and celebrate special occasions that hold significance for both of you. This could include anniversaries or other personal milestones that contribute to the sanctity of your connection.
   
   
8. Intimate Connection: Cultivate a strong physical and emotional connection. Regular physical affection, such as hugs and kisses, can deepen the bond between you two.
   
   
9. Mutual Growth: Embark on a journey of learning and growth together. Explore new experiences or hobbies that contribute to your individual and shared development.
   
   
10. Respectful Adoration: Show consistent respect and admiration for your goddess. Acknowledge her efforts, express gratitude, and be mindful of her well-being to create a positive and loving atmosphere.
    

Remember to tailor these suggestions to the preferences and dynamics of your unique relationship with your goddess. Open communication about each other's needs and desires is key to maintaining a strong and fulfilling connection.

 

Simple, do as your told!

 

In addition to the above ideas, you could plan a day trip or weekend getaway doing activities she loves. A trip to a day spa...tickets to a concert...or just a quiet getaway for the weekend.

 

You probably have all basics falling into place ...

- how to do laundry & how to fold her clothes.
- how to make her favorite meals & present them correctly.
- make sure the kitchen is clean after every meal.
- floors swept & rugs vacuumed regularly.
- the bathroom must be spotless.
- the toilet seat always being down & lid closed.
- if you have a yard, it is always tidy.
- the car(s) is(are) filled with petrol.
- are regularly checking in on her needs
- any pets are fed & cared for.
- etc etc etc

Here are a few things that I remember from my early days of my mistress's pavlovian training regimen for me. Some more subtle tasks I must keep on top of to avoid running afoul of her ...

- making sure the toilet paper & paper towel rolls didn't ever run out.
- that the toilet paper & paper towel rolls were put on the dispenser facing correctly.
- that the ice tray never became empty.
(this was tricky because we didn't have an automatic ice maker & she used ice liberally)
- stuff like this ... ask her if she doesn't tell you.
(you have to ask questions & extrapolate)

It was always the little things that tripped me up!

 

Keep it simple. Don't mention you're in chasity hourly, don't flood her with ways to control you aka things you want. Don't overwhelm her basically. You can do all the nice things in the world but you drive her nuts will do zero good

 

Life is about progress, not perfection. [says the perfectionist]
Please give yourself some (or a lot) of slack.
It took a while (years) for me to get in the groove.

Servitude is not for everyone - if it's for you, you'll know it.
If not, you'll know that too ... you both will.

This is the extrapolation part I was talking about.
Learn to read between her lines - questions can help you clarify (when the topics are discussed.

Mr_anonymous has an excellent point! The goal is to be of help to her, not a pest.
If you want to be the Sub, don't force her to be the Top - that will do neither of you any good.
The best Mistresses/Dommes are because they want to be - not because you want them to be.

 

Foot rubs - a woman's feet trigger stimuli to the same area of the brain as an orgasm does. Develop a foot fetish, a fetish for her feet. Apply cream or lotion to prevent dry, cracked skin.

If she does something that is annoying to you don't mention it. If it's something like leaving her dishes out or in the sink, take the opportunity to clean them up and place them in the dishwasher. Look at those annoying things as ways to serve her and eventually you will enjoy opportunities to serve her in that way.

 

Do what she wants you to do. It's not about you performing, it's about what she wants.

 

Love letters.

Works for me.

 

I love this list. Nice job Jay.