Do you enjoy a ruined orgasm?

I must admit ruined/caged/cbted, became the most addictives orgasms, far more desireable that natural one.
I guess it involves more nerves, mind, fetishs... it s a pleasurable mess

 

I received one last night and can say I don’t love them but the build up was incredible. Her licking, sucking and nibbling me for what felt like forever was so good. The final hand job had me begging for a full only to be treated to a ruin. So delicious and frustrating at the same time. When done I was quickly told to cleanup and lockup asap

 

I feel a drop after a ruin, almost as bad as a full orgasm, and the recovery is a day or so. Even a precum event causes me to drop, although I seldom have it happen. We've tried several ways, but my Mistress now prefers to edge me with no release at all. The lockup after is frustrating, but I don't loose any desire or submissivness from an edge like I do with a ruin.

 

I've grown to enjoy ruined orgasms a great deal. A full orgasm is a rush of pleasure, but it dissipates quickly. The "post-orgasm clarity" comes in within seconds and my mindset will shift out of submissive mode. With a ruined orgasm, you get the rush, you get some level of release, but the "clarity" never comes. Your body does all of the things it does in an orgasm but your brain never gets the "off switch" it gets from a normal orgasm, so I get to stay in my horny, submissive mindset that I prefer for even longer.

 

I wouldn’t go so far as to say I enjoy them. I’ve accepted them for sure.

 

So far my goal is to get ruined orgasm. But i just managed a very few time to get one. Its hard, to not go to far so it ends in a hand free orgasm with contractions. The smallest touch or even thinking of something can stimulate you to far and its over.
For myself i got ruined orgasm when my level of horny goes down again and the body says now way here is something. The cum just flows out and there are no contractions of the penis. I always was horny after, so all the time i continued to get a normal orgasm after without any problems.
A mistress could stop that, maybe someday i have myself the will to do so.

 

I enjoy the fact that I don't enjoy them, if that makes sense.

 

The more I get into chastity, the more I realize that I am fairly masochistic. Over the past two years I have started to really enjoy punishments. I'm now into

Being tied down blindfolded,
Whipped and cropped
Ruined Orgasms
Urethral sounding
Being plugged and pegged.
post orgasm torture...

It really makes it hard for MIstress to do serious punishment. The only thing I hate is being ignored for days on end. That's truly unpleasant.

 

I've been given the ruined orgasm, with the exception of the climax I feel the same afterwards.

 

It depends. Just last year I started experimenting with ruining. Usually I was a daily orgasm kind of guy. A ruin during that normal release schedule was kind of a let down. My brain was pissed because it was expecting what it got yesterday.

However, now Im more into going weeks with constant edging. Right now its my longest at almost 7 weeks. (My first time longer than a week.) Now when I ruin which is once a week during this session, my brain craves it because it knows its getting something. However the brain figures it out when its too late which is when that last dribble hits my balls. My brain gets amped up even more waiting for another chance to finish.

 

Neither of us enjoys a ruined orgasm.

I don't enjoy ruined orgasms because she never gives then to me.

She doesn't enjoy ruined orgasms because she enjoys teasing the hell out of me, making me twitch, spasm and thrust. This gets her really aroused and is foreplay for her own orgasm. When I explained what a ruined orgasm was to her, she had no interest and dismissed it immediately because there is no payoff for her. If anything, she'd rather have me explode because that produces loud moaning/ groaning and uncontrollable spasms in me.

 

I like a ruined orgasm. because you can cum several times in a row!

 

I used to think that as well. the dribble is frustrating but when the point of no return is reached and stimulation stopped it is totally different

 

For me they bring no physical pleasure, only mental sense of loss, but it was never my orgasm, it’s my owners.

 

Yes, here's why. With cage off, I finish 30 seconds tops, without nudity and using my own hand. You can imagine how often my wife would agree to sex with me. With the cage on, I enjoy every moment more, and end up cumming in the cage with no stimulation. It just needs to go somewhere and my body lets it out. No climax or pleasure. But it shows my wife just how excited I am about her and lets me stay caged longer

 

I have only had a few ruined orgasms. My wife really has not tried to much of it yet. I hope she does though. I do know that she loves the fact that when she is done I am not. She seems to enjoy keeping me in the mood. She has spoken about trying to do it to me. But so far she has not gotten into it. Time will tell.

 

My femdom roommate loves when my wrist are cuffed behind my back and she strokes me to the very edge and then leaves me humping air with the hope of an orgasms just this once.

 

Not sure on all the details of what you enjoy/have set up, but for my wife, she likes knowing I finish so easy for her. You could try bringing it up as a "Let me do it for you" approach? Let her know you enjoy it, but careful as now that mine knows I can do that with cage, there is no reason to take it off. You've been warned lol

 

I will for sure do so. Most appreciated. She has been reading up on it. So, I am pretty sure her attempting more of this is just around the corner for me. I understand your meaning though. I should be careful what I wish for.

 

I love them! However, I had proper ruined orgasms from my wife KH only once. She would suck my cock and I would warn her when I was about to cum. She would them stop and let me drip few drops. She would then start again commenting how tastier my cock was with cum drops. Those comments would reduce the time between my cummings. I loved it, but unfortunately she didn’t quite like it. She said it was to much work on her side with little pleasure. It must be a personality issue. I know that the main problem in our relation is that we are both submissive, so she didn’t get the vibe from dominating me. Hopefully this chastity play will increase her interest in being the sexually dominant figure.

 

I think ruined orgasms are a great contrast to full orgasms.

It provides the thrill of a chase.
Depending of level of success, a sense of accomplishment. If failure, then a desire to do better.
Not having a sub drop means I will continue to be filled with a longing, and desire.
I feel satisfaction in pleasing my wife/dome, despite not getting a physical release.

Given these things there are various approaches to a ruined-O that can provide many different types of sensations and emotions.

They are a great way to train, sure positive and negative reinforcement.

Explore it.

 

Ok.. Ruined. That's mainly for special occasions. I get edged and to be honest I prefer them.
It would be nice to have full blown obviously, but I get a lot more fun if edged simply because I can stay hard and be edged day after day, and we can have fun with it.
My favorite is what C calls "the cow".
I'm on all fours. I'm literally milked like a cow. It feels incredible.
When I get close C let's go and pulls down on my balls.
I can't even describe how good that feels.
We have edge months zero come.
Edge months with blobs (ruins) . I have to eat these and it takes the cravings away.
But if you don't come very often and fit long enough, the cravings don't bother you anymore. Like you get used to the hormones or something.
The Veriety is as big as normal sex because you can do any sex and not come. Suck edge, ride edge.. Just allow the head in edge.. You get the idea.
If I come. It all ends for a week.
I like being full and horny and totally in love with my wife.
I'll take my edges all day long.