Vanilla wife shared her fantasy

Drews, I just want to add my voice to your supporters. I'm wired fairly similarly to you, and in my mind you did an amazing thing. Well done.

 

I feel much the same way. I've fantasized about hubby giving another guy a blowjob. Strangely enough, no other guy/guy stuff does anything for me, so it's an oddly specific fantasy. But it's also definitely a hard limit for hubby. And even if it wasn't, I wouldn't really want it to happen. Some things are best left as fantasy. For me, anything involving sharing is in that bucket.

Also, I really admire the OP for making his wife's ultimate fantasy a reality. That's an amazing thing to do, and I'm glad it worked out so well for both of them.

 

Do you think she's scratched the itch now? I.e. she's happy it's done and you'll have that as a shared experience? Or might it become an occasional thing?

 

You indirectly make a good point. For some fantasies are just that. Things they think about. For others they’re things to do an try. Neither is right or wrong, rather it’s what’s right or wrong for you and yours.

Personally, my fantasies are things I want to and have made happen. But I understand those who won’t or can’t.

 

We'll never have that discussion since I just don't want to share him with anybody. This is about ME, First.

 

Some are like that. We had a friend whose husband was"curious" and she was,too. So she found a guy for him. He wanted it all, except for one thing: NO KISSING. The sucking,, reaming, fencing with penises, yes, but KISSING WAS OUT!

For mine, too.

It's how I feel, too. Yeah, I get wet fantasizing about him in pretty, lacy lingerie getting taken roughly by some guy hung like King Kong, sucking him off and getting a huge load of ejaculate all over his face but it's not going to happen.

The difference there was She wanted it to become reality. I say this a lot, "This is about ME,what I want." I'm guessing if I did want it to become reality, it would jeopardize my marriage. I'm not about to do that.

 

I'm late to this thread, but I have to say that this part cracks me up. Would he have thought your wearing a cage is weird or something? I mean, considering the rest of the circumstances...

 

That is a fact. Don't try something once you don't want to do the rest of your life. Been there done that

 

Wondering how things have progressed - or not - for Drews?

 

You should be denied for a few weeks beforehand. His big dick on your prostate may take the experience from ‘not horrible’ to fucking awesome.
Idk. I’m still having a hard time believing all this…
Not the part where you slept with a man, that happens. The bit where you agree to it even though you don’t want to etc.
Either way, I think you should find a man you don’t know (That’s very easy from experience), and you can just relax and enjoy it all. You can wear your cage then.
Is there anything worse than a man judging your wife for keeping your chaste whilst he fucks you silly?

 

Hi Drews thanks for this fantastic thread for I have been reading it looking for updates and the reason I am reading it because I have always been bi but never done anything about it. I do have one question, what was it like to give a man a blowjob for the first time. ( I would love it to try it.)

 

For me no kissing = no interest. I actually have this fantasy of 2 sissies caged and gagged and told to go at it. Would love to be part of something like that to entertain and be humiliated in a jovial way.

 

I’ve just been catching up to this thread. It sounds like you have made an amazing development.
I’m maybe even more amazed about your wife opening up about her fantasy of 30years, than the fact that you made it happen.

It is incredibly vulnerable for her to open this topic, and I think (in the end) you both handled it very well.

Have you discussed if there are any other fantasies she likes?

Anyway, congrats on the amazing development of the relation with your wife.

 

This has been a fantasy for me. Did it, found I did not enjoy it as much as I thought I would.
I think I would enjoy it more if I was in a MFM scenario and instructed by the dominant man or woman to do it.
As a natural submissive I get off when forced to submit. Still wanted to have him penetrate me but wasn't the right time and place.
Maybe one day I will go all the way.

 

I've been thinking about this for a while.....I'm not gay or bi, but .If my wife was ok with it and arranged it, i would go along with it, BJ and a pegging

 

The amount of people condoning yet alone encouraging the coercion that happened here is amazing. She didn't even ask him first, had a guy lined up and everything. He said no which was his right and she got upset used it against him. This is a perfect example of not respecting boundaries not to mention bringing a third into the relationship and std's. People have the right to say no and no not everyone should try everything once. Female led doesn't mean you can't have boundaries or give up the right to say no.

 

I did and it's scary. A lot of take a dick even if you don't want to. The entire situation was approached wrong speaking to him before you. Had she had your best interests in mind she would've accepted the no and moved on. Instead she became aloof and distant. If it worked out great but it screams guilt and coercion to get her way.

 

But… now he’s had an experience that he enjoyed (even if he won’t admit it ).
Life is for living, not stressing over the past.